somebody help whip my ass back into the DJ lifestyel

[PiHiPlaya]

First off, I don't want your pity... I want your help and suggestions.

School started about a month or so ago, we are around 5 weeks in. This was my freshman year... it went nothing like how I planned and i'm abosolutely pissed about that. First i want to state everything that's wrong.

(1) First week of school, got oneitis with foreign exchange student, didn't think the rules applied to her so i always complimented, always was nice, never neghitted. Stuff like that.

(2) No girls see me as boyfriend material, no girls want me! Every girl I have gone up and talked to doesn't like me!

(3) This girl was making fun of me for being up close and personal. Like she was talking about invasion of personal space. So I know something is wrong with my kino.

(4) All the guys that I am in classes with ****ing rip on my ass all day. Seriously all they do when i'm around is make fun of me. There is this one kid that whenever i go up to him and try to talk to him he's like "God, go away your sooo annoying"

I can't fight the guys cuz they have popular friends that i'm sorta friends with. But they would beat my ass if i touched them. I'm wondering if I am too annoying.

so those are the problems

It's like i have a lot of acquaintances but no friends... And none of the girls like me. I know i'm doing something wrong. Can you guys like help me out, ask me some questions so we can get to the bottom of this together... and does anyone have any tips?

Thanks in Advance

 

[Julian]

Damn man. Thats cruel for the kids to be saying that sh1t to you. I know there was 1 kid who kind of puppy dogged my group and we always told him to get the fucc away cuz he really was an idiot. But it was wrong and i regret being such a bastard to him.


Do you see yourself as annoying? I mean are their things that you do that could cause people to perceive you as this? How could you not have ANY good friends? Did you jsut move err?

 

[PiHiPlaya]

yeah, i did just move.

But i made a few good friends over the summer, but the guy that says "God your soo annoying is that guy" I go up and talk to them at lunch... and do they do whatever they can to ditch me. So i've kinda forgotten him, much like boricua and his troubles

 

[aBAzLLnA]

hmmm that is a tough situation. nevertheless it is for a purpose. i suggest you just to find even one chill friend as with teh girls...**** that...forget about them for a little. dont get pissed with anything, trust me, getting pissed only makes things worse...but take it nuetrally...more like "whatever".

do you play sports? cuz thats the perfect place to be cool with a guy. Things will pick up once you get used to your new surroundings, as for the kids that **** on you...just ignore them...dont insult back, dont fight them...remmeber be all loving lol. give em a little smile and maybe a thanks.

~ivan

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Yeah, someone having a worse start to the year than I!!!

lol, j/k

I think you should just keep talking to people who interest you, seek attention or seem bored as they are looking for someone to talk to.

I'm not having a bad year like you,I got tons of guy friends I guess (but, I didn't come to Sosuave 4 guys so I'm flunking) I'm not near where I should be when it comes to talking to girls, I need to up the ante. Starting the very next school day. I need to stop thinking "what will these people think if I just join their group and just jump right in...


P.S. Maybe you can start a journal over at the website below in my signature, nice to here how it goes