"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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**** somebody help please

FranklinsTower

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Theres this girl that i've been seeing, we always like talk about going out and stuff, and she talks about her ex sometimes, she just called me crying because he called her and said some nasty ****. What do i do? I was like planning on askin her out like really soon. How would you handle this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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shydude

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LMAO, she talks about that stuff!!!! Hmmm sounds like she takes u as her friend..But anyways, when she starts talking about the boyfriend, just say to her "anyway" Or "whatever" and jump on another subject. She will figure out` about that!! And whats the hold up bud??? ASK HER OUT!! Dont waste a minute thinking, Just do it!! "JUST DO IT"!!!!!!!!!!Good luck mate.
 

Mr_rogers

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Yeah, dude, in all honesty, you've become an emotional tampon unless you stop her from spilling her heart to you. And we all know where that leads...:down:
 

penkitten

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first you should ask her out.
once you have done that, if he continues to call and she gets upset, tell her you will kick his butt if he calls again.
 
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