Because i'm failing, no matter how much i search to see what exactly it means.
from what i've read and gathered it just basiclly means that you so focused on one girl you don't see any mistakes your makeing or you get depressed something goes wrong.
and what i'm seeing in reply is no matter how serious you want to be or are with a certian girl always have 2 or 3 on backup..
I think that's a load of **** if what i'm picking up is what it is.
So if you were dateing a girl would you like her to be banging or talking to other guys? just so she doesn't get one-itis? I don't get it..
anytime i get into a relationship i always get to know the girl first, i call this i talking phase. and so does pretty much everybody else i think. Any girl that i was "talking" to though that wasn't important goes to the wayside and gets downgraded to "friends"
then as time passes the girl i put my time into becomes my g/f
i've found these to be the best relationships i've been in! The way i see it though is i don't have a problem when a girl goes to the club or bar with guys she's free to do her own thing because hell i'm doing mine. maybe that's why i don't understand one-itis because i've never felt obligated to spend 100% of my time with a girl.
from what i've read and gathered it just basiclly means that you so focused on one girl you don't see any mistakes your makeing or you get depressed something goes wrong.
and what i'm seeing in reply is no matter how serious you want to be or are with a certian girl always have 2 or 3 on backup..
I think that's a load of **** if what i'm picking up is what it is.
So if you were dateing a girl would you like her to be banging or talking to other guys? just so she doesn't get one-itis? I don't get it..
anytime i get into a relationship i always get to know the girl first, i call this i talking phase. and so does pretty much everybody else i think. Any girl that i was "talking" to though that wasn't important goes to the wayside and gets downgraded to "friends"
then as time passes the girl i put my time into becomes my g/f
i've found these to be the best relationships i've been in! The way i see it though is i don't have a problem when a girl goes to the club or bar with guys she's free to do her own thing because hell i'm doing mine. maybe that's why i don't understand one-itis because i've never felt obligated to spend 100% of my time with a girl.