“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Some women, just don't deserve to live

Mike32ct

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Jaylan said:
Lol wut?

I dont know any quality childless women that would give this guy a chance. Most young women I know without kids steer away from men with kids. Not much different from how young childless men behave.

Id love to hear the backgrounds of these 8 women and to see pictures. Id bet money that at least 7 of the 8 are low quality.
I dont see this amongst peers at all. OPs story is something Id call rarest of the rare. Then again, I dont tend to surround myself with too many people that have children.

This all said, yeah some women like sloppy seconds...but from what we see on this forum...there are dudes chasing taken women in order to get sloppy seconds as well. That just tells us the quality of both men and women who indulge in sloppy seconds.
No doubt that I'm exaggerating a bit, but it's to make a point.

Yes, plenty of guys go for sloppy seconds too, but it's not for the same reason as women.

Not all women, but a decent number are drawn to players that have a lot of partners. They are literally quite attracted to these men.

Yes, quite a few men chase slu t s. But I don't think men get MORE attracted to a girl that has had lots of partners. They only chase sl uts because they are perceived as easy and down for casual sex.

Many men will choose easier over more attractive. Women prefer what is more attractive, even if it's harder to obtain or keep.
 

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update:


the story gets better. The woman was on probation for something I don't know. the dude with 8 kids is a violent felon. They have the same PO and the PO found out they were seeing each other a while back and the PO told the girl to not talk to him it would be against her probation guidelines to accoiate with felons.


So apparently, she not only has the baby by the guy, they got married earlier this week. I don't know why the change of heart from the dude but they got married.

So now the chick is sitting in jail about to go back to prison for violating the terms of her probation while she's pregnant.


seriously. too stupid to live.
 

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Maybe she'll have the kid in jail. That sounds like a great deal for the taxpayers.

Probably 90% of prisoners are in jail for just being fvckups and not for any good reason, like to protect society from them. We have built a prison state around the idea of incarcerating non-violent fvckups. Where I live, being a prison guard is one of the few good job opportunities left.
 

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Sounds like a case of like attracts like, or more specifically, trash attracts trash.
 

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Think about it

backbreaker said:
So apparently, she not only has the baby by the guy, they got married earlier this week. I don't know why the change of heart from the dude but they got married.

So now the chick is sitting in jail about to go back to prison for violating the terms of her probation while she's pregnant.

seriously. too stupid to live.
He had 8 other baby mamas but he chose *her* to marry. She is really lucky.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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zekko said:
Sounds like a case of like attracts like, or more specifically, trash attracts trash.
I've often wondered how trash seems to always find trash, and with no trouble. Think about it, most of the guys on here are generally upstanding guys, have a good job(or a job), their main faults seem to be that they're too nice, don't kick enough old ladies or steal enough candy from kids so women shun them. Wonder why can't decent people find decent people as easily as trash seems to always find trash? Is there more trash out there then there are decent people? If that's the case, don't women like rarity? They should be all over the decent guys (not the overly sweet @$$ kissers) if there are less of them then there are trash.
 

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Robert28 said:
Think about it, most of the guys on here are generally upstanding guys, have a good job(or a job), their main faults seem to be that they're too nice, don't kick enough old ladies or steal enough candy from kids so women shun them. Wonder why can't decent people find decent people as easily as trash seems to always find trash? Is there more trash out there then there are decent people? If that's the case, don't women like rarity? They should be all over the decent guys (not the overly sweet @$$ kissers) if there are less of them then there are trash.
Lol, I don't think it's necessary to go around kicking old ladies to attract women. But I DO think that decent people are in the minority, both in the male and female gender. Not rare necessarily, but definitely the minority.

Anyway, I'm far from the best person on the planet. But I've never had to act like trash to attract women. There's nothing wrong with being a decent guy, just don't be a wimp. Most PUA theorists confuse the two. Women are attracted to masculine traits, they're not attracted to the act of stealing candy from babies.
 

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and the ones that are attracted to guys who steal candy fro babies are not the ones you want to stick your stick into anyway.
 
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