"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some Women are Just as Lazy as Some Men

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I know you people know the same type of women I do. It doesn't matter where you're from. The type of woman who is eternally lazy in bettering themselves. I'm not talking about looks wise either. The ones who will go get their hair and nails done on a consistent basis, spend all their money on clothes and makeup....yet have ZERO personality, goals, ambition and expect a man to drop from the sky into their lap in a Hollywood style movie scene. They consider themselves "good girls" but in reality are needy control freaks who offer nothing to a relationship other than what a "gentleman" can provide for them. They complain there are no good men yet do nothing to try and find one and when they do are bewildered as to why the guy pumps and dumps them and is on to another woman with things GOING for them. And yes, some of them I know are 29 years old going on 30.

They post on their Facebook walls they "dislike players, cheaters, and 'shady' people'" but it's hilariously obvious they are attracted to them or wouldn't bother worrying or posting about them. Why? Because those are the guys who don't NEED them.


There are also the lazy online/real life AW's who are as deep as a puddle yet think they are some sort of Movie Star because they have 897 and counting "friends" on Facebook, and are the most 'shallow' popular person you could ever meet, but the thought would never enter their peanut mind that being an INDIVIDUAL is what's most important. It's like "I don't want to take the hard road in life to making myself a better person so I'll do what the "cool crowd" is doing and give myself an ego 'fix' by trying to get the most orbiters in real life and most "friends" and "fans" online.

What I'm getting at is ACTIONS speak louder than WORDS. Instead of sitting there feeling sorry for yourself and needing these silly, lazy a$$ women to give yourself an ego boost, go out and better yourselves and look from the outside at your everyday situations and people themselves. You can really learn a lot from this site and life in general. Just put the sound advice given to you and tips in practice and stop worrying about the same delusional "fantasies" of love that a lot of these lazy a$$, self absorbed women have as well.

YOU want LOVE? Special Breaking News Bulletin: We ALL do. Work on LOVING and BETTERING YOURSELF first and LOVE will have found YOU.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You got it backwards: Some men are just as lazy as women.

On the rare occasion that I see/hear a woman expressing seemingly genuine ambition, it proves to be little more than trying to sound stylish.
 

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The first paragraph describes someone I know. She is EXACTLY like that too. 36 going on 37. Head over heels for a guy that pumps and dumps her and is always giving him more "chances" to redeem himself.

It's a tragedy and comedy at the same time its so absurd.

I kinda feel sorry for her. (we've known each other 20+ years)
 

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scorpio1138 said:
The first paragraph describes someone I know. She is EXACTLY like that too. 36 going on 37. Head over heels for a guy that pumps and dumps her and is always giving him more "chances" to redeem himself.

It's a tragedy and comedy at the same time its so absurd.

I kinda feel sorry for her. (we've known each other 20+ years)
And you want to bone her right?
 

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GetOveIT said:
And you want to bone her right?
I've been boning her since last August. We're FBs :D

She won't even talk to her best friends about him.
They tell her she's being stupid and move the fvck on...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Naughty, did she see your post yet? Since you were so exact and specific, we KNOW you are gonna show her. Let us know what the premadonna thinks of it. LOL
 

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Show who? I know a couple who I've messed with years ago or ones I'm friends with. Contrary to your belief I don't bang every girl I know or worry about them. They're Friends of wives girlfriends friends who I see every now and then and it's the same old song and dance. Complainers and whiners who think "baby Jesus" is going to drop a man in their lazy ass laps who "adores" and treats them like a "gentleman should" . Those are the types I stay far away from. But I do from time to time get a kick out of bullying their pathetic views on their alleged "lives".
 

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scorpio1138 said:
The first paragraph describes someone I know. She is EXACTLY like that too. 36 going on 37. Head over heels for a guy that pumps and dumps her and is always giving him more "chances" to redeem himself.

It's a tragedy and comedy at the same time its so absurd.

I kinda feel sorry for her. (we've known each other 20+ years)

The ones I know are going to be thirty and have the mental capacity of twelve year olds. These women think they're too good to even do online dating for Christ's sake! They talk about people they've liked from YEARS ago who they "thought" may have liked them through any minute detail, fantasize over people whom they've NEVER had any relationship with period, and sit around waiting for some guy to run up to them and buy them a drink and fall in love with them. They will do NOTHING to be social and look for ANY bit of attention even if it's negative. If they weren't friends of friends who come out in groups with us I'd have no contact with them at all. Some people prefer to live in their own bubble of a world. Embarrassing!
 
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