"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some women are Biatches ... and it can't be helped!

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I'm trying to be patient here, but it's hard. The problem is I just don't get this idea that seduction is a skill. In my opinion, IT IS NOT. Let's very briefly compare the two:

A skill can be learned and mastered. Once learned, you're always able to do it.


Seduction cannot be mastered. You can never really learn it. I mean, you can be great one day and a total disaster the next. Can you honesty say you can go out there anytime of the year and get the number of the first attractive girl you see?

And I know what some of you guys are going to tell me:"Don't blame the girl. just adjust your "game" to get better results"

Well, fukk that!!!

I'm going on a year of approaching and meeting girls. In the process, I found an awesome girlfriend so I don't think the entire process of approaching and meeting women is a total waste

But I DO NOT credit my "game", or seduction, for helping me to get the girl. I did it becuase I WANTED a girlfriend and so I worked to get her. I do, however, give thanks to one seduction expert for pointing the way, but that's it!

You're probably wondering why the fukk I'm so pissed off???

Well I'll tell you:

I approached a girl today. And what does the biatch do? Ignore me! FUKK. I REEEEEEEALLY hate it when that happens!!! Then, when I persist, she walks away from me. I feel utterly humiliated, so I flick the biatch off.

But Why the fukk????

Why can't I be exceptional with women ALL the time? Why the fukk is it an off and on process? Sometimes, I do very well. Yet, other times, I fail miserably.

But Im tired of blaming myself for it. It's not my fault. It's just that some girls are biatches, and it can't be helped.

If you know how to get a *****, then my hat goes off to ya becuase I have yet to get past the desire to slap the **** out her when she acts like a biatch ...but I love flickin the biatch off on my way out.

FUKK!!! Im so freakin pissed right now. AHHHHHHHHHHHH::cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Um.

chill the **** out.

Who cares? Maybe she didn't want to talk. Maybe her dog just died, or her boyfriend just dumped her...Maybe she is just a biatch! SO WHAT!

You shouldn't let these t hings bother you...It will be a HUUUUUUGE Disadvantage in everything you do if you let these things bother you.

Who CARES if she ignored you? Her loss!

Take a chill pill ;)
 

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playing football is a skill. winning every single football game every single time is not a reasonable expection for even the most skilled football player. Every now and then all the factors come together and you get a perfect season. But otherwise you win some games and you loose some games. You keep practicing and getting better and building your skills, you add what you need for your team and you drop what you don't need, you work on your plays and strategy and study your opponent and eventually you start to win more than you loose. But you never quit playing the game. Got it? Good, now quit whining and go play some ball sport.
 

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Is is a skill, my friend. If you talk to a gir li-li-like this, or shy or being inconvenient, they will walk away from you. But remember, you are approaching strangers. You dont know anything about them. You dont know if they are taken, if they hate men, if they are jewish, if they hate men, etc. It is obvious that you are going to get rejected most of the time. Live with it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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loveorhate said:
I approached a girl today. And what does the biatch do? Ignore me! FUKK. I REEEEEEEALLY hate it when that happens!!! Then, when I persist, she walks away from me. I feel utterly humiliated, so I flick the biatch off.

But Why the fukk????
First off, you need to get bytch slapped first. Don't ever blame other people for your problems. The only person you need to blame is yourself. Secondly, you have one post and sound like a typical AFC. You have a lot to learn. Go read the DJ Bible. And I mean EVERY article.

You have so much to learn it's ridicolous. Stop complaining about everything, realize your a chump and the only direction you can go is upward. The most successful people out there have failed over and over and over again. They never bytched about it, only they learned from it and became better because of it. Thats what seperates us from AFC's.
 

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I did act like a pure grade chump. After I cooled down, I realized how much of a biatch I was behaving like.

I think I still have some biatch in me that needs to be given the boot. I think it's the socializing with girls more than I do guys. Maybe their "softness" is rubbing off on me. Maybe I'm growing a virgina, though it's hard to tell with the large penis in the way.

Anyway, I decided to change my approach, but I won't tell you here. I'm going to start a new thread for it so more people can see it. I think it could help straighten out someone's priorities in regards to what they really want with women. Someone who may be confused like I was.
 

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loveorhate said:
A skill can be learned and mastered. Once learned, you're always able to do it.

Seduction cannot be mastered. You can never really learn it. I mean, you can be great one day and a total disaster the next. Can you honesty say you can go out there anytime of the year and get the number of the first attractive girl you see?

And I know what some of you guys are going to tell me:"Don't blame the girl. just adjust your "game" to get better results"

Well, fukk that!!!

Of course you have to adjust your game to get better results. Do football coaches prepare for each team the same way every week? Do hockey players shoot in the same place every time? Do basketball players always go left for the layup? Of course not.

When you are a "disaster" picking up a girl, it is because the girl is not responding positively to you. If one girl takes off her clothes and sleeps with you because you commented on her hair, does that mean that the next girl will? No way in hell. You have to adjust you game to what she likes, what she responds to, what she gets emotional about, not keep the same game and expect her to get weak knees for you.



I'm going on a year of approaching and meeting girls. In the process, I found an awesome girlfriend so I don't think the entire process of approaching and meeting women is a total waste

But I DO NOT credit my "game", or seduction, for helping me to get the girl. I did it becuase I WANTED a girlfriend and so I worked to get her. I do, however, give thanks to one seduction expert for pointing the way, but that's it!

Here is where you are confused. You actually did have game in order to get your current girlfriend. You just don't realize you did because you were yourself and didn't resort to any shameful tactics to sleep with her. There is a difference between wanting a girlfriend and working hard to get her, and expecting the girl to take off her clothes because you said "hi" to her.


You're probably wondering why the fukk I'm so pissed off???

Well I'll tell you:

I approached a girl today. And what does the biatch do? Ignore me! FUKK. I REEEEEEEALLY hate it when that happens!!! Then, when I persist, she walks away from me. I feel utterly humiliated, so I flick the biatch off.

Translation: Every girl who I say "hi" to MUST respond like they want to sleep with me. Don't they know who the hell I am? They should be honored I'm in their in presence and that I'm saying hi to them. I can't believe all girls don't realize how hot I am. They are sluts and *****s if they don't give me the positive response I'm looking for.

Why can't I be exceptional with women ALL the time? Why the fukk is it an off and on process? Sometimes, I do very well. Yet, other times, I fail miserably.

Translation: All girls should love me, even though I'm using the same game over and over and over again.


But Im tired of blaming myself for it. It's not my fault. It's just that some girls are biatches, and it can't be helped.

Blaming all girls for not loving you when you are doing the same thing to pick them up is like blaming the teacher for not giving the exact same test year after year. Unfair? Yes. Logical? No.
 
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