Some will, some won't, and that's fine....

[edger]

I'm posting this as a means to encourage and uplift people's spirits, so they don't cast blame on themselves on how it's difficult for them to pick up women. I'm sure everyone understands how some will go on applying DJ techniques and actually become DJ's/Player's, and some won't, because not everyone will always be able to apply it. I'm sure many here know "the game", and I'm sure they know it very well too, but just can't really apply it, and I'm not knocking anyone, that's fine, nothing wrong with it, you're only human. It's like playing a sport. Some will know all the techiniques and strategies of the sport extremely well, but when it comes to actually playing the sport, they're just not that good at it.

 

[lookyoung]

Some will know all the techiniques and strategies of the sport extremely well, but when it comes to actually playing the sport, they're just not that good at it.

Yes this is very true. Take a look at max kellerman he knows everything there is too know about boxing but he has never put on a pair of boxing gloves in his life. Same thing with many sports broadcasters.

It is the same with sosuave. Many guys here give great advice. They can break down the psychological aspect of the game beautifully and the newb thinks WOW these guys are great with woman. This is far from the truth.

Is michael jordan the best basketball analyst?NO


There are guys on here who I guarantee are terrible with woman but give great advice, and make great threads. We can learn from these guys also.

Me personally I was good with woman before I joined sosuave. This site is great for MOTIVATION.

 

[Interceptor]

Here are some things that I think really stand out for beginners. They need this bad:

-Create the life you want.
-Don't underestimate your physical attraction. Go to the gym. No portruding bellies. Understand Body Language. Project your "maleness". Oh yes, and shave, and cut your nose hairs too, guys. Grooming, and more grooming.Uneven sideburns, a no no. Unwashed, unbrushed hair, a no no.
NO dirty old shoes, or old dirty jeans, or old dirty baseball caps. No way. Ever.
-understand that you are a Man, and should not apologize or be embarassed about your sexuality and sexual desires.
-Most importantly, understand that lots and LOTS of women WANT to be seduced, loved, and made loved to by a real man with integrity, guts, confidence, passion and purpose in life.
In other words, women WANT to be seduced.
They want you to be affectionate and love them.
Guys, I see it in their eyes every , single day. Every day. Every single, loving day, my friends.
You need to look beyond the twinkle. Watch their bodies. Watch their responses to you. They want a MAN.
Stand up and BE A MAN, guys. They ARE WAITING for YOU. (you think I'm joking, don't you?)
Give up the Playstation and Xbox just a little, ok?
Put away the Star Wars toys and Lord of the Rings merchandise, ok?
(remember the idea of a advanced stage of Male adolescense using "boy" psychology, versus "MAN" psychology. I'm sorry, the truth hurts. Stop being adolescent males at age 20. please. Do yourself , your bros, and women a favor and grow up.)
Go to gym.
Take kickboxing.
Take Yoga.
Go rock climbing if you want.
CREATE A SOCIAL NETWORK.
Get a life. Enjoy your life.


HAVE PASSION.

And don't be afraid to actually "touch" a woman.
You'll be surprised how they change right after you touch a woman's arm or hold her hand during a conversation.( take the time to build just a little trust, guys, ok? Don't move too fast. Self control, remember? Take your time)
Get used to seeing the "twinkle" and the hair flipping, guys. It WILL happen for you.

Go out and do it.

Do it.