"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some Voice Help

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Double_Diamonds

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Hey everybody, great to post again on here. I've been doing great with women lately and now I'm heading back to what this is all about: self improvement. I plan on getting a benchpress soon, and I'm working on many other aspects of self improvement. But I have a problem: my voice.

I think my pitch is fine, but when I speak, it sounds like there's something in front of my mouth. Though it's not as bad as his, it's the same problem napoleon dynamite had.....:rolleyes:

I've tried many things and talking slower doesn't eliminate the problem. If you could please help me with this, it'd be much appreciated.

You can listen to my voice here: http://geocities.com/hawkmiles/thevoice.wav
While I can speak lower and slower, this is merely a sample to show what's wrong. I don't even know what it's called.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tristan22

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I have a problem with talking too loud and speaking clearly! It's almost as if i just ran a marathon and i'm winded and out of breath. I wish i could fix my vocal problem!
 

spider_007

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your lips, you seem to speak like 1/4 of a second before you actually open your mouth. and when you do speak it's like your lips arn't moving with your mouth. No I'm not saying that you start moving lips like a Camil, but look into it. Try bunch of different things (smiling maybe)
 

jiza101

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LOL, here i made a voice wav its 5 meg :cheer:
http://www.putfile.com/media.php?n=LAWLWALAWL
Heres another one i made, its 600kb, and its a **** joke :crackup:
http://www.putfile.com/media.php?n=k13

I had to do to the joke in 60 secs so i cut bits out, the quality is also ****
:cheer:

BTW Double Diamonds, it sounds like you have 0 pitch in your voice, like its just 1 tone. Try practicing by making high and low sounds with your voice, so mix the pitch up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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