"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some tips on girls

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I got this in an email forward. It shows how you should act if you're with a girl you like.


>>~If you respect her talk to her about anything.
>>
>>~If you like Her , ASK HER OUT already.!!!!!!!!
>>
>>~When you hug her, put YOUR ARMS around her WAIST and hold her
>>close.
>>
>>~When you WALK next to her, get as CLOSE as you can to her.
>>
>>~If she's the only one in your life, TELL HER.
>>
>>~ALWAYS let her know how much you like her, love her, or think
>>about her.
>>
>>~Give her presents and cards for no reason, SHE WILL RETURN THE
>>FAVOR...
>>ALWAYS.
>>
>>~If she hangs up on you, call her right back.
>>
>>~Always offer to pay, if she says NO twice, then let her pay but
>>make a deal
>>that you get to pay next time(date offer too!).
>>
>>~Kiss her lightly every chance you get
>>
>>~Look in her eyes and kiss her on the lips, forehead, or nose.
>>
>>~If she says she's cold, don't be an idiot and say "me too" and
>>stand
>>there.
>>Give her your jacket or just simply hold her in your arms.
>>
>>~Don't force her to do anything she's not comfortable with.
>>
>>~Invite her to dinner or somewhere where you can talk, instead of
>>the
>>movies.
>>
>>~Try not to ask her if she's mad at you EVERY TIME you speak to
>>her.
>>
>>~Only tell her you LOVE her if you really mean it.
>>
>>~DON'T pressure her to do anything she isnt READY to do. When she
>>is ready,
>>she will let you know.She just wants everything to be more SPECIAL
>>and
>>PERFECT. So appreciate what she does do with you.
>>
>>~DON'T' go and tell your friends anything that happens between you
>>two,
>>cause it will hurt her and make her mad...and it will NEVER happen
>>again.
>>
>>~When a GIRL is quiet, Millions of things are running through her
>>mind.
>>
>>~When a GIRL is not arguing, She is thinking deeply.
>>
>>~When a GIRL
>>looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how
>>long you will be around.
>>
>>~When a GIRL answers "I'm fine"; after a few seconds, she is not at
>>all
>>fine.
>>
>>~When a GIRL stares at you with a questioning look, she is
>>wondering why you
>>are lying.
>>
>>~When a GIRL lays on your chest, She is wishing for you to be hers
>>forever.
>>
>>~When a GIRL wants to see you everyday, She wants to be with you
>>always.
>>
>>~When a GIRL says I love you, she means it.
>>
>>~When a GIRL says "i miss you", no one in this world can miss you
>>more than
>>that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tmpgstx

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Puhleease ..lol. The first part is like a chapter index to being a Non-Juan and the second part is .. well.. let's just say this could be true of a quality girl.
 

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this belongs on the AFC message board

oh wait it's already been posted here

jk ;)
 

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God, how do any of you fools believe in that AFC, Non-Juan BS?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm reading that and saying to myself, NO, NO, NO. I've done most of them when I was younger, they don't work.

Someone said it right, this belongs in AFC board.
 

Ace of Flames

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barely any of that is any use to a dj. standing close when u walk is good. kinda adds that sexual undertone thing to it all. giving your jacket when she's cold is just the gentlemanly thing to do.

the second half is a little better.... maybe true about what the girls feel, whatever. somethin to think about anyway.

but the first half sux. no one listen to the first half. yuck.
 
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