"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Some time alone

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I've been dating this girl for a little more than 2 months. Things were going really well until just a while ago.
She called me at night and said that 'she wasn't sure if everything was right'. I asked her about it, and she said that she still liked me. There was nothing I had done, and she hadn't bothered me.
But she said she just wanted time to think about it, and she wasn't sure about us.

At first I didn't know what to think. But then I remembered that she had told me that none of her relationships had lasted much longer than two months.
I think that she has a problem with commitment to long term relationships. It kind of sounds like it. And I've talked to her friends, who say the same thing.

What should I say to her?
 

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I'm sorry that she needs to beat around the bush but I'll have the decency of being honest with you and translate "I need time" for you:

"I need time. Alot of it. Away from you."

You can approach her about her 'problem' or realise that it's not a problem as much as it is a plan to have various dating experiences with different people.
When she told you that, you should have understood that there was an implicit message.

I wouldn't be offended really or search for answers. It's clear that she wasn't looking for anything 'serious' so I hope you wern't too emotionally attached.

Best of luck. Don't linger and develop oneitis please!
 
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