I dont usually make posts but I gotta put somethin down here tonight. Let me share with you what ive learned in the game.
There was this girl I was with who I really liked. Did everything right. Elicited values, played the ****y and funny game, built trust, etc. I broke her off after a movie and I stayed up thinkin about her. #1 rule to this game is don't focus too much on a girl. I found out that she met some dude at a party who she made out with a night later, and now he's gettin whats mine.
My boys told me to go back after her and chase her. Nah never that, charge it to the game. In class the other day a new student (a straight up HB10) walked in. I got up and sat down next to her, introduced myself, kino'ed her up. Next thing I know she was begging me to come over to her house to help her with her first days homework. RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE GIRL I MENTIONED ABOVE. That night the girl who got with the other guy called me, begging me to forgive her for cheating. I laughed and told her to have a good time with her new bf. Karma is a ***** ya know?
My boy Patrick was a total AFC with women. We were chillin at In and Out Burger a week ago. It was a Friday night, we were hanging out eatin when a really hot brunette girl took a seat at a table across from us. He told me "Damn that girl is fine, I could only dream of getting at her. She probably only goes for guys with money". I bet him 20 dollars he could get her phone number if he tried. After a quick pep talk, he walked up to her and just tried his best to establish rapport with her. He was a novice, but his courage shone through his eyes. When he came back with the piece of paper i tore off for him with her phone number, I realized he had learned something that was worth far more than a 20 dollar bill or even the phone number for that matter. He had seen in his OWN EYES that he can get what he wants if he has the confidence to assert his will.
Look, to all you guys in here that don't believe this **** is real, let me tell you: if you don't get this part of your life handled, you'll regret it forever.
I don't care if you play everquest all day and have pimples and wear emo glasses, YOUR A MAN, GET UP AND GET WHATS YOURS!!!!
Go to your local mall and start opening girls. Your gonna get blown off. U GOTTA learn to not take rejection personally or seriously. Its not u its her alright? She doesn't know what the hell she's missing. Instead of thinking you don't deserve HER, think that she doesn't deserve YOU. And honestly, she doesn't.
One of the blessings of living on this planet is that our time here is short. Tell me this, what is scarier to you, getting rejected by some undeserving girl or going to the grave without ever having known the success you DESERVE TO HAVE with women.
You HAVE to understand that. You only have ONE life to live.
I'm feelin generous tonight, so I'll give u a quote that is very inspirational to me:
"It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes short again and again, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows achievement and who at worst if he fails at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat".
So are you gonna be the guy who knew neither victory nor defeat. Or are you gonna be the MAN who steps in the arena of life and takes whats HIS. The MAN who decides his destiny and doesn't let anyone else decide it for him
There was this girl I was with who I really liked. Did everything right. Elicited values, played the ****y and funny game, built trust, etc. I broke her off after a movie and I stayed up thinkin about her. #1 rule to this game is don't focus too much on a girl. I found out that she met some dude at a party who she made out with a night later, and now he's gettin whats mine.
My boys told me to go back after her and chase her. Nah never that, charge it to the game. In class the other day a new student (a straight up HB10) walked in. I got up and sat down next to her, introduced myself, kino'ed her up. Next thing I know she was begging me to come over to her house to help her with her first days homework. RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE GIRL I MENTIONED ABOVE. That night the girl who got with the other guy called me, begging me to forgive her for cheating. I laughed and told her to have a good time with her new bf. Karma is a ***** ya know?
My boy Patrick was a total AFC with women. We were chillin at In and Out Burger a week ago. It was a Friday night, we were hanging out eatin when a really hot brunette girl took a seat at a table across from us. He told me "Damn that girl is fine, I could only dream of getting at her. She probably only goes for guys with money". I bet him 20 dollars he could get her phone number if he tried. After a quick pep talk, he walked up to her and just tried his best to establish rapport with her. He was a novice, but his courage shone through his eyes. When he came back with the piece of paper i tore off for him with her phone number, I realized he had learned something that was worth far more than a 20 dollar bill or even the phone number for that matter. He had seen in his OWN EYES that he can get what he wants if he has the confidence to assert his will.
Look, to all you guys in here that don't believe this **** is real, let me tell you: if you don't get this part of your life handled, you'll regret it forever.
I don't care if you play everquest all day and have pimples and wear emo glasses, YOUR A MAN, GET UP AND GET WHATS YOURS!!!!
Go to your local mall and start opening girls. Your gonna get blown off. U GOTTA learn to not take rejection personally or seriously. Its not u its her alright? She doesn't know what the hell she's missing. Instead of thinking you don't deserve HER, think that she doesn't deserve YOU. And honestly, she doesn't.
One of the blessings of living on this planet is that our time here is short. Tell me this, what is scarier to you, getting rejected by some undeserving girl or going to the grave without ever having known the success you DESERVE TO HAVE with women.
You HAVE to understand that. You only have ONE life to live.
I'm feelin generous tonight, so I'll give u a quote that is very inspirational to me:
"It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes short again and again, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows achievement and who at worst if he fails at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat".
So are you gonna be the guy who knew neither victory nor defeat. Or are you gonna be the MAN who steps in the arena of life and takes whats HIS. The MAN who decides his destiny and doesn't let anyone else decide it for him
