Some thoughts on looks.

[Websterdic]

I've often heard that women don't like dating guys who are "prettier" than them.

I've always been told that i'm a pretty attractive guy plus I tend to dress nicely/trendy. I've never had much of a problem attracting women but that's not why I opened this thread. It's the type of women that I attract that is my issue.

I noticed that attractive women are rarely as open and outgoing towards me as an average girl. An average girl will come to me and show clear signs of attraction but good looking gals don't. As if to them looks don't really matter as much and they're more into the personality of the person. So this has made it kinda of hard to attract good looking women bc. i'm used to them coming to me bc. of my looks and not my content.

any thoughts?

 

[ArcBound]

You say attractive women are rarely open to you, but then you also say you don't approach them.

Why don't you actually try approaching you might find they are more open than you think. Better than making theories about how they are more into personality or whatever.

 

[DonGorgon]

women love gay looking girly men..FACT thats the new cute for them,

 

[Masculinity]

Regardless of what anyone else thinks here, physical attractiveness is the best predictor of whether a girl will like you or not. People who are in the same range in physical attractiveness are the ones who last the longest in relationships (there are exceptions of course). If you are a 7 you will attract 7's & below. If you are a 9, you will attract 9's. However, 9's are more in demand and have more options, so they may not show as much interest as 7's because they have more options than 7's.

 

[Jack Wealthy]

Yes, I am in the same situation. I know for a fact that hot girls just show less signs then average/below average girls because they know they don't have to put the same effort in. Another reason the interest they show isn't as obvious because they're subconsciously going for a high type of male, one who goes for what he wants and not necessarily what she wants. Just keep escalating til you get a solid rejection.