"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some thoughts (long)

Exo

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Hey all,

I dont want to get mopy so I'll try to keep this short enough to bear with me. I gave my GCE's this january and passed on all the subjects, currently studying for my A-levels and possibly a retake on two subs. I'm 18 ATM and it's been a long road till here. Orignally I was large globish nerd "prodigy" uptill about 12 when I was suposed to have given these tests. We swaped school in favor of a "coaching centre" (prep school?) and basically the newfound freedom got to my head. After a year or so of no progress I droped out. Still a grudging loner, almost did some prety harmfull things and a "regulated" social life(lack of a better word). We moved about 2 years ago and did some studying cuz the new place wasnt exactly the most opulant and had little else to do. Got a teacher and actually made progress. Came back went to a urinated hell hole of a centre with some wannabe OBL as the principle(my family is muslim too so no I'm not prejudiced), set of a few firecrackers(theyre semi-legal where I'm at) got expaled and fagots called the pigs on me, a long and irrelvant story short that got managed but the person who filed me as being a bomber is still out free.

We used to live in holland uptil I was 12, the new place was drastically diferent and I couldnt quite adjust. I've been a loner for a long time but made some of the worst friends imaginable at the second coaching centre. One of them gave what it took to nearly file terrorist case against me(I joked about a plan to blow up the ****holes septic tank). Like I said I got a "regulated" life so never had many friends or much more to do than stare at walls( rents wont shell out for a console or decent computer, or even my own TV).

But now I'm back in a coaching, passed HS and finally out. Dont leave HS

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thats a pretty sad story,staring at walls is really terrible,I know.

Just hang out dude,this site is going to make you a better person.
 

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hehe yeah i feel you man , being a middle eastern guy in the usa now is like being jewish guy in germany in 1940s... we are the new race that people will have prejudgment about , just cuz of some dumb ****heads in middleasia who deal with theyr miserable life with passing blame on others and using religion as an exuse.....
but as the guy above me said , this site is going to change you in many ways , but hey your 18 right think about going to a college outside of the us, somewhere u want to live or would liek to , theres nothing stoping you now...
 

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Thanks for the support all! I'm not in the Us btw and thankfully enough in a muslim majority country. I didnt get to finish that but I'm outa steam on that one lol, this site really did change my life. Stoped slouching, got rid of my "pit bull" persona and learned the nouning trick so I can make some conversation. I'm currently doing A-level's (guess that's like college in the US system), only started math so far but it seems to be going prety good.

Everyone was prety sure I'd fail but managed to get some prety decent grades (hell even an A in english).Thanks SS!
 
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