"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some solid advice!

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This is taken from the book "Models" by Mark Manson that someone had posted on here earlier this week for download.. This excerpt really struck me as good solid advice when it comes to picking up women.

In case you didn't get it, the rating scale is a pedestal. The concept of "high value" is a pedestal. Coming up with special openers is a pedestal. Most PUA theory is a pedestal. Believing you have to treat her differently in any way because of how she looks is a pedestal.

I recommend guys switch to a binary system of 1 or 0. A "1" is a woman you'd like to be with. A "0" is a woman you wouldnt. Why you want to be with her or not, how she looks, whether she's just okay looking or the most beautiful woman on the planet-none of that matters. Either you're interested or not. The rest doesn't matter.

And in the meantime, get your life together. Stop caring about looks so much. Treat her like you'd treat anybody else. Stop approaching her to prove something to yourself. Stop treating her like a trophy or an achievement or a merit badge. Just talk to her. Just the fact that you talk to her like a normal human being with confidence and civility will immediately differentiate you from 99% of the other guys she meets.
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Stop using "lines" or "openers" to get women. Stop settling for trash. Just treat her like a normal person who you can be romantic with. Fvck these "games" that they play. If they play them, and you're not willing to put up with it, then you're letting yourself down by not being honest with yourself. Move on from it. Don't "NEXT" her.. Don't whine about her playing games with you to her.. Just move on. If she disrespects you, why should you even owe her an explanation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nice. I like the decision making power of that model. With the 1 or 0 binary system, you can more easily pull the plug at any time without justifying self-compromising accommodations. Disrespect? Sorry, you're a 0. High maintenance? Sorry, you're a 0. Suggesting a threesome with her best friend? Great, you're now a 1. Trying to p whip me? Sorry, you're a 0. ... Next!
 
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decent idea no doubt but probably hard to follow for most people.
 
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