"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some solid advice!

Alex DeLarge

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This is taken from the book "Models" by Mark Manson that someone had posted on here earlier this week for download.. This excerpt really struck me as good solid advice when it comes to picking up women.

In case you didn't get it, the rating scale is a pedestal. The concept of "high value" is a pedestal. Coming up with special openers is a pedestal. Most PUA theory is a pedestal. Believing you have to treat her differently in any way because of how she looks is a pedestal.

I recommend guys switch to a binary system of 1 or 0. A "1" is a woman you'd like to be with. A "0" is a woman you wouldnt. Why you want to be with her or not, how she looks, whether she's just okay looking or the most beautiful woman on the planet-none of that matters. Either you're interested or not. The rest doesn't matter.

And in the meantime, get your life together. Stop caring about looks so much. Treat her like you'd treat anybody else. Stop approaching her to prove something to yourself. Stop treating her like a trophy or an achievement or a merit badge. Just talk to her. Just the fact that you talk to her like a normal human being with confidence and civility will immediately differentiate you from 99% of the other guys she meets.
Stop using "lines" or "openers" to get women. Stop settling for trash. Just treat her like a normal person who you can be romantic with. Fvck these "games" that they play. If they play them, and you're not willing to put up with it, then you're letting yourself down by not being honest with yourself. Move on from it. Don't "NEXT" her.. Don't whine about her playing games with you to her.. Just move on. If she disrespects you, why should you even owe her an explanation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Nice. I like the decision making power of that model. With the 1 or 0 binary system, you can more easily pull the plug at any time without justifying self-compromising accommodations. Disrespect? Sorry, you're a 0. High maintenance? Sorry, you're a 0. Suggesting a threesome with her best friend? Great, you're now a 1. Trying to p whip me? Sorry, you're a 0. ... Next!
 

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decent idea no doubt but probably hard to follow for most people.
 
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