"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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some relationship advice plz...

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ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a week now....and she knew this before but didnt make a big deal out of it....i smoke and i cut school...but she wants me to stop doing both. She says she wont kiss me until i stop smoking....for OUR sake...now she tells me that wants me to do this cuz she cares about me...but a friend of mine who also smokes and cuts with me told me that i should put a short leash on her cuz shes trying to rule the relationship...

im just curious as to what you guys think about this...any help is greatly appreciated...thanx guys...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You really should quit smoking and go to school for your sake. But if you dont want to then dont. Dont let what she says change you at all.

If I were you I would really try to quit smoking. I would go to her and tell her I need help breaking my addiction. Then she would feel like she is rescuing me and girls eat that sh1t up.
 
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xerex said:
ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a week now....and she knew this before but didnt make a big deal out of it....i smoke and i cut school...but she wants me to stop doing both. She says she wont kiss me until i stop smoking....for OUR sake...now she tells me that wants me to do this cuz she cares about me...but a friend of mine who also smokes and cuts with me told me that i should put a short leash on her cuz shes trying to rule the relationship...

im just curious as to what you guys think about this...any help is greatly appreciated...thanx guys...
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My dear friend, I suggest you open your TV - did you know smoking kills, is bad for your health and gives you bad breath?

The choice is pretty obvious which is why I was being sarcastic...

STOP SMOKING!!!!
 
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I guess she is not trying to rule the relationship, being dominating or sort like that.She just wants to bring out the best in you by refraining those vices.Your lucky she is concern with you!:yes:
 
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