"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some quick questions about a date setted up and text f*ck up

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Called her up at 5 she didn't replie, texted an hour later: hey looking forward for tonight! see you at 8 , she replied: hey im not gonna make it, sory! Replied: oke
So. I really fcked up with that particular text... I had to reassure the date coz it's a 40min drive to loc we set the date on. Our text convos were way to awkward for a girl I've only seen once 2 years ago.. Rip number next...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Called her up at 5 she didn't replie, texted an hour later: hey looking forward for tonight! see you at 8 , she replied: hey im not gonna make it, sory! Replied: oke
So. I really fcked up with that particular text... I had to reassure the date coz it's a 40min drive to loc we set the date on. Our text convos were way to awkward for a girl I've only seen once 2 years ago.. Rip number next...
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i don't think it was the text per se that you fvcked up on.

it was a date arranged by text with a girl you had only met for ten minutes, two years ago. it was always going to be a long shot, wasn't it?
 
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me: you dont go enough, im going to motivate you dont worry

her: ok thanks i know should go more


Sometimes I think if you aren't in state of being flirty and playful (arising naturally from within), these remarks can be taken in the wrong way.

The problem is a little more internal that you think. You were trying to be ****y funny. DOING instead of BEING.

She didn't respond with a playful "haha" or anything of that sort. It almost seemed like you suggested that she should go to the gym because she's out of shape.

Next time don't force any emotions upon yourself that you aren't already feeling.
 
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True but I still think she flaked coz of our convo be4 we went out..gonna giv her a second chance texting in a couple of days to ask again, if she refuses she's out. What do you guys think?
 
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True but I still think she flaked coz of our convo be4 we went out..gonna giv her a second chance texting in a couple of days to ask again, if she refuses she's out. What do you guys think?
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i think you're wasting your time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i think you're wasting your time.
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Yeah man...

Thing is...

When we are in a state of scarcity, our unconscious mind tends to rationalize our own behavior in certain situations.

Oh maybe it was the conversation before

or

Maybe I wasn't ****y funny enough

Attraction either HAPPENS or it DOESN'T

She's an old rusted plate you found lying around in your attic. I wouldn't bet anything on it being reliable.
 
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