Some quick questions about a date setted up and text f*ck up

[TheGambino]

Called her up at 5 she didn't replie, texted an hour later: hey looking forward for tonight! see you at 8 , she replied: hey im not gonna make it, sory! Replied: oke
So. I really fcked up with that particular text... I had to reassure the date coz it's a 40min drive to loc we set the date on. Our text convos were way to awkward for a girl I've only seen once 2 years ago.. Rip number next...

 

[sylvester the cat]

Called her up at 5 she didn't replie, texted an hour later: hey looking forward for tonight! see you at 8 , she replied: hey im not gonna make it, sory! Replied: oke
So. I really fcked up with that particular text... I had to reassure the date coz it's a 40min drive to loc we set the date on. Our text convos were way to awkward for a girl I've only seen once 2 years ago.. Rip number next...

i don't think it was the text per se that you fvcked up on.

it was a date arranged by text with a girl you had only met for ten minutes, two years ago. it was always going to be a long shot, wasn't it?

 

[HyperAnalyze]

me: you dont go enough, im going to motivate you dont worry

her: ok thanks i know should go more


Sometimes I think if you aren't in state of being flirty and playful (arising naturally from within), these remarks can be taken in the wrong way.

The problem is a little more internal that you think. You were trying to be ****y funny. DOING instead of BEING.

She didn't respond with a playful "haha" or anything of that sort. It almost seemed like you suggested that she should go to the gym because she's out of shape.

Next time don't force any emotions upon yourself that you aren't already feeling.

 

[TheGambino]

True but I still think she flaked coz of our convo be4 we went out..gonna giv her a second chance texting in a couple of days to ask again, if she refuses she's out. What do you guys think?

 

[user name]

True but I still think she flaked coz of our convo be4 we went out..gonna giv her a second chance texting in a couple of days to ask again, if she refuses she's out. What do you guys think?

i think you're wasting your time.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

i think you're wasting your time.

Yeah man...

Thing is...

When we are in a state of scarcity, our unconscious mind tends to rationalize our own behavior in certain situations.

Oh maybe it was the conversation before

or

Maybe I wasn't ****y funny enough

Attraction either HAPPENS or it DOESN'T

She's an old rusted plate you found lying around in your attic. I wouldn't bet anything on it being reliable.