"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hiay all... i've worked out for 5-6 months... tomorrow i'll be starting again after a 1 month gap. i needed a few answers.

For leg exercises i use only machines (for squats, leg curl, leg extention etc) so should i start using free weights wherever possible for my leg exercises? or should i keep doing machines for now. Also, how many scoops of optimum 100% whey should i have on workout days ? is one after post work-out (with milk) & one early in the morning sufficient ?? is consumption of whey protein neccessary on a non-workout day??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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For leg exercises i use only machines (for squats, leg curl, leg extention etc) so should i start using free weights wherever possible for my leg exercises?
Start doing BB squats. Get rid of the pansy a$$ leg extension and leg curl crap. maybe as an assistance exercise, but you're not going anywhere unless you load up that bar and squat it.

Also, how many scoops of optimum 100% whey should i have on workout days ? is one after post work-out (with milk) & one early in the morning sufficient ??
Throw down 2 scoops post-workout, with water, no milk. One in the morning w/ breakfast, and one or two before bed w/ milk would be ok.

is consumption of whey protein neccessary on a non-workout day??
Yes, unless you get all your protein from regular food.
 
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Heres the difference.

Free weights help with definition of the muscles. With free weights you are also using stabilizing muscles to control the movement of the weight.

With machines you use alot less stabilizing. Its good to use machines when you plateau and you want to do more weight so you can move up a level.

Use both but use free weights whenever possible.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: Some questions....

Originally posted by semag
Throw down 2 scoops post-workout, with water, no milk. One in the morning w/ breakfast, and one or two before bed w/ milk would be ok.
With the pre-bed whey dont have it with milk, have it with water. You dont want milk just before your going to bed.
 

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okay.... thanks a lot for your replies guys... why do you ask me to have whey protein with water?? do the proteins get absorbed faster with water than with milk or somethin
 

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Sammo, milk slows down absorption so it's ideal before bed. Better than milk is a milk protein or casein shake, but unless you're sensitive to lactose then there's no reason not to use milk in your pre-bed shake.

Casein/milk protein is the optimum solution though.

What am I saying, the optimum solution is a lb of pre-bed beef..
 

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WA, where did you get this? Milk is casein protein, which is slow to absorb, but that doesn't mean it slows down the absorption of whey. I have yet to hear of a study saying this, it sounds like bodybuilding hearsay.

When you eat a sandwich with veggies in it, the carbs from veggies get absorbed before the carbs from bread even if you ate them both together (i.e. the carbs from bread wont slow down the absorption of veggie carbs). It's the same way with milk protein shakes. The whey protein gets absorbed right away, the casein from milk gets absorbed over time. Oldschool bodybuilders all used milk for their PWOs.
 
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Dont you need something with the whey? For faster absorbtion. Say a fat or a carb?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well, insullin is the best carrier of nutrients / macro-nutrients. so for a post workout shake, it's often recommended to put in dextrose (or honey, or even sugar) because it spikes up your insullin and helps your body absorb the protein asap.
 

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Actually Mind, you've got me there, you're absolutely right, casein is a slow digesting protein and it doesn't slow digestion in general.. sorry, wrong choice of words, apologies for any confusion caused. (I was in a hurry)
 

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Cool... btw. how many times a week do you guys do abdominal exercises??
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Sammo, milk slows down absorption so it's ideal before bed. Better than milk is a milk protein or casein shake, but unless you're sensitive to lactose then there's no reason not to use milk in your pre-bed shake.

Casein/milk protein is the optimum solution though.

What am I saying, the optimum solution is a lb of pre-bed beef..
You don't want carbs/fats gotten from milk digesting while you are asleep. Solution? Casein protein with water, the **** will stick to your stomach like glue so its fine with water.
 

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Originally posted by sinner
Cool... btw. how many times a week do you guys do abdominal exercises??
between 0 and 1.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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