"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well BPH, as far as your squat goes, wider base dude. That's what ya need. With the wider base you'll really be working that depth and your hamstrings will be feel the burn along with your quads. Try a wider base, feet don't have to be pointed north. You could go pigeon toed a little bit, it's what I do, makes squatting a lot easier for me.

Let me know what you think. And of course if your knee can't handle it, don't push it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RiceandChicken said:
Well BPH, as far as your squat goes, wider base dude. That's what ya need. With the wider base you'll really be working that depth and your hamstrings will be feel the burn along with your quads. Try a wider base, feet don't have to be pointed north. You could go pigeon toed a little bit, it's what I do, makes squatting a lot easier for me.

Let me know what you think. And of course if your knee can't handle it, don't push it.
Im Sure you dont mean that in bold - More comfortable maybe?:rock:
 

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RiceandChicken said:
Well BPH, as far as your squat goes, wider base dude. That's what ya need. With the wider base you'll really be working that depth and your hamstrings will be feel the burn along with your quads. Try a wider base, feet don't have to be pointed north. You could go pigeon toed a little bit, it's what I do, makes squatting deep a lot more doable for me.

Let me know what you think. And of course if your knee can't handle it, don't push it.
There ya go Purefilth lol
 

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I think your depth looks fine, you don't "need" to go down super low. Just as long as your hip-joint is just below your knee-joint.

I agree your feet could be a little wider and need to focus a little more on forcing your knees out. But, its kind of hard to really tell where or if your form is breaking down without any weight on the bar..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Krueg said:
I think your depth looks fine, you don't "need" to go down super low. Just as long as your hip-joint is just below your knee-joint.

I agree your feet could be a little wider and need to focus a little more on forcing your knees out. But, its kind of hard to really tell where or if your form is breaking down without any weight on the bar..
This. Everyone's form looks good with no weight. Stress is what puts your form to the test. Make a video of one of your heavier sets.
 

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Thanks purefilth and Stig lol. And yes BPH, wider base, not too wide that you sink too deep too easily but deep enough to really feel it work your inner thighs.
 

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BPH said:
Considering the fact that the day after I did 185lb sets I couldn't walk I'm not sure if that is a good idea...
Understandable, If you have a chance to get video of yourself on a actual squat day that could be useful. Or if you see a personal trainer at the gym who isn't a idiot, ask him to watch you squat and see if they have any pointers. Or possibly another gym member who regularly squats..

I dislike squatting in-front of mirrors. I'll face the opposite way cause I feel I get a better - mind to muscle connection and not get distracted by the mirror.

Good luck!
 

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Krueg said:
Understandable, If you have a chance to get video of yourself on a actual squat day that could be useful. Or if you see a personal trainer at the gym who isn't a idiot, ask him to watch you squat and see if they have any pointers. Or possibly another gym member who regularly squats..

I dislike squatting in-front of mirrors. I'll face the opposite way cause I feel I get a better - mind to muscle connection and not get distracted by the mirror.

Good luck!
Ain't that the truth
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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