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Don Juan
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Anyone here well travelled in LA? What is the size of LA? Is LA big city that it will take you long hours to travel from area to area by car? How about if you take a bus or train?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh thanks for the links. I was too lazy to navigate the site, I just wanted to ask people who are actually residing in LA instead.Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Fire Departments? Fire stations?
We have a huge Fire Fighting force. Can I ask why do you need to know?
Here is the list of stations
This has the number of personnel
Hi. Would it take you more than an hour travelling in some street or highways by car? What about if you take a bus or train?Originally posted by Kidd
I live in it bro.
And yes, its ****ing massive. Travel time depends on traffic.
Well that's very admirable of you. Good luck.I want to become a firefighter/paramedic in the future and I'm thinking of going to LA Fire Department.
LOL. During rush hours, it can take about an hour to get to many places....street and highways.Hi. Would it take you more than an hour travelling in some street or highways by car? What about if you take a bus or train?
Dude, that's not even close to the extremes of L.A. I'd say about twenty minutes off peak driving hours. Rush hour is generally from 6:30-9:30 am and 3:30-7:30 pm. Those two places look like eight miles of each other. Los Angeles looks more like this:LA is a huge city but how come the driving duration from Nevin to Mount Washington (two areas at the extreme of LA) is only 13 min. according to this site?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeah, I wanted to become a firefighter since I was a kid. haha. It must be a challenging job. Thanx bro.Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Well that's very admirable of you. Good luck.
LOL. During rush hours, it can take about an hour to get to many places....street and highways.
I've never taken a bus, but if you're outside of the central area of L.A., it could be difficult to get a bus. Trains are quite nice, actually. I took the Metrolink from Union Station to my stop in the Valley, and it was very quick, quiet, and (somehow) relaxing.
Dude, that's not even close to the extremes of L.A. I'd say about twenty minutes off peak driving hours. Rush hour is generally from 6:30-9:30 am and 3:30-7:30 pm. Those two places look like eight miles of each other. Los Angeles looks more like this:
http://www.mapquest.com/maps/map.adp?country=US&address=&city=Los+Angeles&state=CA