"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some progress

L0bsang

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hi guys, just been reading the vault and such which has helped. it has been about 2 months and have gained 13 lbs!! (176 to 189). still working on it short term goal is 200 for the next 3 months. the hardest part is eating for myself. two major things that have helped me 1) going to the gym even when i dont feel like it 2) good music on the ipod.

-i have not done the 2 tablespoons of veg oil a day. how important is this? and do guys that do this just drink it straight up??

-for those of you that drink raw eggs...just regular xl store bought ones are ok? do you wash the shells? honestly, i have had solmonella before and its horrible and am scared to get it again

-what food do you guys like to snack on? i have been eating a lot of...


-tuna
-peanut butter/jelly with wholegrain wheat bread (minimal jelly)
-edamame
-beef jerky (when its on sale)
-soy milk
-sunflower seeds
-mini carrots


have a good one guys
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quagmire911

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Congrats on the progress.

Add in the olive oil when your gains slow down/stop.

Use any eggs, preferably larger ones. I have probably had a few thousand raw eggs by now and am doing fine.

As for snacking your choices look decent enough, although I would lose the bread and milk. Beef jerky=yum.

Keep it up,

Quagmire
 

I-tallionStallion

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I use Cage-free eggs...i've been told that they are less likely to get any such bad germs.
 
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