"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm pretty new here.. but wow, is this like a cult thing?? i'm not trying to generalize, but a few people here think 'being a donjuan' is like so amazing and its a ez win with girls...
there are a bizzilion guys out there who dont know what 'donjuan' is and get girls more than most ppl here.

no offense, just those few ppl really bug me. And the other thing is that they dont act like a "don juan" 'is supposed to', but take pride in being one...
oh well just felt like expressing that.
partly what i'm saying is that 'if ur not a donjuan that doesnt meant don juans on a basis are better at gettin girls than u' and some ppl here who think that annoy me.:box: :cuss: :nono: :(
haha i like the choice of smilies here :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eh, but becoming a don juan improves your ability to score women :p . I know this website has helped me a **** ton and a lot of guys will agree that this website has really improved their lives!
 
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"You don't need to be Italian to make a great pizza." - Me

Don Juan is just a little underground name someones thought of for chaps on this site. In it's literal sense, it's what you are once you've mastered everything tought here and more. No one really has, we're all still learning. Once we know everything we leave this site. Basically we all know a little something, and learn from each other. I wouldn't call anyone here Don Juan, though. :)
 
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i agree with what your saying! its my thought exactly! although i must say this site has helped some people take it too far, its not a way of life! What are we? samuri? :p
 
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Lol,
thank you that is comforting lol.
I think though that this site improbes *some* of us. Or maybe *most* of us. I dont know, but saying that 'if you join this forum, you will improve' is sort of pretencious.

I totally agree, of course this isnt a way of life... but i've seen posts that specifically state it as a way of life.. lol

well from what i can tell most of the ppl here have their heads on straight ;) :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unfortunately DJs don't see it that way.

See we don't really worry too much about what other people think. You getting annoyed by people is a flaw that you need to work on - improving that flaw will most likely improve your success with women.

All of us have various weeknesses and the goal here IMO is simply self improvement. The perk at the end is better lives (which includes success with women). Its made a difference for me over the last few years.
 
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Ah, I picked this quote out from another thread... THIS is the attitude I REALLY REALLY dislike and frown on.


"Revenge is for weaklings and I don't see you as a weaking because you are on this site. "

(That was not a post addressed to me, but was part of a thread I had little to do with.. a kid wanted revenge on one of his ex-friends bc he was being a jerk.. or something but its irrelevent)

I seriously hate that... its saying 'since your a member on this site, it automatically makes you strong...' or some such like that... ya'll know what i mean.
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Its true, there are some people who are able to pull in a lot of action by themselves without even being aware such a website exists, and those people are the ones who grew up around guys who were good with women and it kind of rubbed off on them.

Oftentimes even guys who are good with women and pull in a lot of pvssy act like AFCs enough of the time to eventually cause some women to be disinterested in them over time. There are also some guys I know who have no trouble getting laid but they take girls out on dates that they pay for, whereas a real DJ would know how to avoid that very early in a relationship and would also know why thats bad.

The point is tons of guys get girls without this material, because girls need to get laid too and there just isnt that many guys who study this stuff, so they pick the best guys from the bunch that don't study it and go for it. But if you study this stuff you will be able to have consistent success.
 
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It's all about boosting your confidence..

If you wanted to be treated like shyt and flamed all day go to the club and stare blankly at a hb and drool... mabye ask her about the weather or some other equally boring topic.

send her flowers buy her stuff kiss the ground she walks on.

Or come here play along and start doing somthing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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