"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some pimples on my shoulders

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It's not over my entire back, just some ones on my shoulders, with some redness. It's not real bad, but it's still there. I know you guys are probly gonna say "omg, don't be an idiot nobody is gonna care", but it's still embarrassing. I wash it with BP, and have it under control, but it's gonna take a while for it to clear. My face has no pimples at all, which is good. Is there anyone else whos back isn't completely smooth? What do you think girls are gonna say?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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advice

Had a similar problem with my chest, but i used some acne products and it cleared up fast. I would recomend some treatment and tell you to take it easy for a while. I hate to say this but it does matter to chicks, i know from experience, so treat it well and make up some exuses if u have too...sucks huh...
 
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i have bacne too, but then i got tanned and washed regularly, so the acne scars is barely visible because my skin is darker
 

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well I appreciate your honesty and not just saying "don't worry about it".

and DJ, have girls said anything to you about it?
 

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I got the same problem occasionally. Face is clear back has the acne. I jsut wash it a few times a day to keep it dry but they occasionally pop back up. It started when I began lifting weights 8 years ago and seems to disappear if I take a month off. Weird.
I used to have acne on my face back in high school. I was fine when school was out and when it was in session the acne broke out. Do those people who have their faces covered with acne cause other people to break out?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Your taking roids arnt you LOL j/ks, sun bro sun it helps heaps, and get one of them body cleaning lotions and take a proper wash, like at least 20 mins or so, I take 40 min showers, but then again I'm a clean freak.
 

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Acne has nearly nothing to do with washing or what foods you eat. It's got more to do with stress and hormones.

It actually indicates a high level of testosterone, that's why you get it when you take 'roids.

If you get it during school it's probably because stress is causing your hormones to go mad.

The only thing that I would say to avoid is touching your skin with your fingers, this can help alot. Over washing can actually increase a breakout if you don't use the right products. Soap is very bad. Try using an exfoliater first to remove dead skin and then a gentle foam wash.

See a dermitologist, acne can be prevented but only listen to skin specialists, not normal doctors or your friends. There is sooo many myths about acne that ONLY a good dermitologist will help. Take vitamin A too.

BTW - Back acne is normally nobular acne (I think that's the name) and it's completely different to face acne, there is a drug called RoAccutane (concentrated Vit A) that completely clears up ALL kinds of acne but the side effects are bad and it's very expensive.

As for if girls care, offcourse they do however the good news is they don't care nearly as much as boys care if girls have acne. Remember sometimes we look at ourselves and think that a girl can't find us attractive because we look at ourselves the same way as we look at a girl (through male eyes), not all girls like the pretty boy look, they look too feminine for most.

Remember look at all the holywood stars who have acne or bad skin, Keanu Reeves, Brad Pitt etc - They don't do too badly.
 

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stp worrying and it goes away, i had this through the builk of my teen life and it used to bug the hell out of me, tried everything, but nothing worked then i had finally accepted it,when one day it just cleared up.
 

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It can happen if you dont take "riods". Are you working out alot? As I work out more and more they show up more and more,but not to the point to where I will complain.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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acne.org,

follow the regimen and your clear in a month for life as long as you don't skip days. I suffered from acne for years and tried everything not to mention three dif dermatoligists. Nonetheless, thanks to the power of the internet after visiting acne.org and purchasing dif products from my local walgreens i got clear in less than a month. I would suggest Dan's BP once a day while you sleep, Complex 15 for moisterizer, purpose fw/bar. it works on various areas of the body too.
 
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