I think that men are inherently supplicative towards women, and therefore can never truly swallow the red pill.
I think it's an ongoing process of understanding that you are not special, and neither is the girl you're with; she merely sees you as her best option at this time. We just let ourselves get comfortable and continue to fall back into the bluepill/femcentric trap that the likes of Disney brainwashes us into thinking is normal.
Anyone viewing the Red Pill as anything more than a box of tools to use, and information on when to use each tool - respectively, is misunderstanding the purpose of redpill.