"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some of my problems

xxxslash616xxx

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Ok my BIGGEST problem, has to be my height. I am 20 years old but I am often looked as being 15-17. This makes it quite diffucult for me to even approach a girl my age. I don't want them to think that some wierdo kid thats 4-5 years younger than them is trying to talk to them.

Also, I have never been the type to see a girl and want to date her right off. I have to get to know a girl first. BUT there are those that make me think "Hmm she seems like someone I might like to get to know better and see if it leads anywhere." But whats a good way of knowing if they have a b/f. I mean i wont go up and start trying to get with them right off. But I dont want some jealous a-hole to get mad and start problems with me.

But other than that this site has helped me alot. Im still basically a nice guy, but not a give in. I refuse to be treated badly or pushed around. If im pushed then whoever pushes me had better be ready to get a push back
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Instinctive

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Slash, do not let your insecurities hold you back. I have never had a girls boyfriend ever start anything with me, it's not an issue. Height and looks are only an issue if you let them be. Take chances, talk to girls. Alot of girls are lonely and want someone to connect with. Be the guy that fulfils them!
 

Cod3r

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A picture ?? Also how tall are you ?? WEight ??

Facial hair will do it for you plain and simple... just let that ish grow ;) Oh and if you can't grow it, eat some really wat pvssy. Some people might laugh but i coudln't grow for shvt till i started eating my ex-ex-gf's pvssy nightly, just lathering that stuff up like an animal... next 3 months, i had a light beard

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Oh and just to express how sucky it can be to look young, before i had facial hair and looked really young... I approached a girl my freshman year in college maybe she was older but not much... i was 18 maybe she was 21 or somethin

ME: Hey, i'm a freshman *haha like that was cool or something*
HER: *laughs* In what highschool ??
ME: *Drunk on couch rest of night*


-Cod3r
 
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