"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some of my problems

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xxxslash616xxx

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Ok my BIGGEST problem, has to be my height. I am 20 years old but I am often looked as being 15-17. This makes it quite diffucult for me to even approach a girl my age. I don't want them to think that some wierdo kid thats 4-5 years younger than them is trying to talk to them.

Also, I have never been the type to see a girl and want to date her right off. I have to get to know a girl first. BUT there are those that make me think "Hmm she seems like someone I might like to get to know better and see if it leads anywhere." But whats a good way of knowing if they have a b/f. I mean i wont go up and start trying to get with them right off. But I dont want some jealous a-hole to get mad and start problems with me.

But other than that this site has helped me alot. Im still basically a nice guy, but not a give in. I refuse to be treated badly or pushed around. If im pushed then whoever pushes me had better be ready to get a push back
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slash, do not let your insecurities hold you back. I have never had a girls boyfriend ever start anything with me, it's not an issue. Height and looks are only an issue if you let them be. Take chances, talk to girls. Alot of girls are lonely and want someone to connect with. Be the guy that fulfils them!
 
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A picture ?? Also how tall are you ?? WEight ??

Facial hair will do it for you plain and simple... just let that ish grow ;) Oh and if you can't grow it, eat some really wat pvssy. Some people might laugh but i coudln't grow for shvt till i started eating my ex-ex-gf's pvssy nightly, just lathering that stuff up like an animal... next 3 months, i had a light beard

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Oh and just to express how sucky it can be to look young, before i had facial hair and looked really young... I approached a girl my freshman year in college maybe she was older but not much... i was 18 maybe she was 21 or somethin

ME: Hey, i'm a freshman *haha like that was cool or something*
HER: *laughs* In what highschool ??
ME: *Drunk on couch rest of night*


-Cod3r
 
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