"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some Of My Favorite SS Members!

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This has been done before, but not from my perspective.

Here are some of my favorites, not in any particular order:

zekko...A guys guy. Well rounded and headed in the right direction. Has learned much from life.
cordoncordon...Even though I could steal his hot girlfriend from him in a heartbeat, I wouldn't do it as I respect the fvcker so much.
squirrels...This man should be a writer. He expresses himself so well. A deep thinker. Almost mystical.
jophil...He's been everywhere and done it. The King of Kings. Has a big heart.
rollo...A leader. Another insightful man. I'd go into combat with him.
backbreaker...A thinker. A man who has been through much, learned and has passed his knowledge on to others.
KontrollerX...Where is he?
Jitterbug...Wise beyond his years.
KarmaSutra...The guy loved his dog. Speaks volumes to me. That's all I need to know.
samspade...Always respectful to all. Can't not like a guy like that.
Fuglydude...He's funny. A good ol' canuck who has been around the block. Says he has a hot GF. Don't know if I beileve that, LOL.
MrPositive....Smart guy. Listen to him. Usually right.
Bible Belt...Tells it like it is. If you don't like it, well, tough sh!t.
Kailex...He'll be our president one day.

There are others. I may update this. No disrespect to anyone here. I admire all of you very much. :yes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kontroller X made a post not too long ago in the mature forum. Kailex been missing in action.
 
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While those are some very nice posters, it's kinda weird to list them all out and actually take time to think about such a thing.
 
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Mantis Toboggan said:
While those are some very nice posters, it's kinda weird to list them all out and actually take time to think about such a thing.
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Well, I don't think it's weird. My only point is that there are some really great guys on here and I have learned from them, you as well.
 
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Yea the good posters are why I come back to this site. My favorite active members here off the top of my head are Iceberg, backbreaker, runner, fugly, mantis and Igetit. I also like a lot of the being sexual stuff from diaforetikos. I'm sure I'm missing a few. When these people give advice, you can take it to the bank.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not a bad list. I would throw Igetit and Iceburg in there. I would also remove one from that list who is literally consumed with anger.
 
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taiyuu_otoko is a very good poster.


i get zekko. and zarky mixed up. I like one of the two. can't remember which one. Love reading jophil's posts as well.
 
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Off the top of my head.

5string (come visit me out here and you can try with the gf haha)
BB (fellow race horse lover)
Rollo (smart smart guy)
squirrels (deep insightful thinker)
anyone who posts positive posts
and believe it or not...

karma (we have had our difference no doubt, but I do respect what he has to say as far as being a man)
 
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My favorites are Himmler, Eichmann, Mengele, etc. :whistle:


Seriously,

Interceptor was the man. He had tons of great insight and a lot of his posts helped with some inner game issues.

Igetit! also seems to have himself in order with awesome insight and advice.

I'm sure there's many others but these two stand out above all.
 
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Atom Smasher said:
Not a bad list. I would throw Igetit and Iceburg in there. I would also remove one from that list who is literally consumed with anger.
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I knew I forgot someone. Your signature pops up in my mind all the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No one loves me :-(

On another note, how've you guys been? Life has been chock full of too f*ckin' busy, lately.
 
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f283000
IgetIt!
dbot (though he's never on his older posts are awesome)
Solomon

and many more.
 
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cordoncordon said:
and believe it or not...

karma (we have had our difference no doubt, but I do respect what he has to say as far as being a man)
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Brother, I've found it's those people we find we exceedingly dislike (at first glance) are the people we learn the most from.

Why? Because we're more alike than we want to admit.

I'll say I always respected what you've said through the years about personal responsibility and self-respect, above everything.

Look me up on Xbox Live and we'll spar over some Tiger Woods.
 
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