"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some noobish questions

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Is it better to approach any woman when trying to get over AA or just any attractive ones?

How can I learn to be completely outcome independent? (Last time I thought I had it, I ended the night disappointed when nothing happened)

How long should I stay talking to a group of women for? Last time I was out I kinda switched between groups really quickly.

Any advice would be a massive help, thanks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SeanyB said:
Is it better to approach any woman when trying to get over AA or just any attractive ones?
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All of them. Young, old, attractive, ugly, thin, fat. Do that to build confidence and get practice. Don't chicken out of approaching hot ones. You need to approach at least some hot ones. Eventually, you'll be confident enough to approach, and you won't need to bother to go out of your way to talk to old ladies or chubby chicks.

How can I learn to be completely outcome independent?
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Don't dwell on failures. Think positively. Go out and get more and more practice.

How long should I stay talking to a group of women for? Last time I was out I kinda switched between groups really quickly.
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Depends where you are and what you're trying to do with them. Make sure you end the interaction of a high.
 
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SeanyB said:
Is it better to approach any woman when trying to get over AA or just any attractive ones?
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I disagree with the poster above. Whatever girls you find attractive. There is no rule that you have to approach only hb 8's and above or any specific type. However, t serves you no purpose to be approaching fat chicks, and frankly to be seen talking to fat chicks lowers your value. Just people seeing you talking to hot girls raises your value. You need to be approaching girls that you find attractive and would like to f___ cause you never know you could hit it off and might get yourself a date. This is why you have to approach only those girls you like, you have to think of every approach as a potential win.
 
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Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll just have to grab my balls and approach every woman I see!
 
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