"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some more motivational stuff

BadAss

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Okay, It's me again.. I just see a lot of post in here that have all the wrong attitude in them. In order to be a succesful PUA, you need to see yourself as a succesful PUA. You have to have the complete belief that you will one day, be a succesful PUA. You need to visualize yourself being in that position. If you can't see yourself as a succesful PUA, you'll never be one. It's something very powerful to understand. Before starting this journey towards being a PUA, you should KNOW that in the end, You'll become one! Trust me, It'll come true. Seconds thing that needs to be done is being consistent. You should work pretty hard and do whatever it takes to get there. That means getting the right attitude. The attitude you have to have is of an experiment. You experiment with girls to see what works for you and what doesn't. So when you get rejected you know you have to change to get another result. And when you do get rejected, know that it only makes you STRONGER, not weaker. Hell, I got rejected a lot of times.. But it's a learning process. I laugh it out when I get rejected. I don't take it personal. If you take it personal, you'll never progress. You just have to stick with this until you become a PUA. All the master PUAs got where they are because they were CONSISTENT. They never give up. They know it's a learning process and it'll take time to get there. There will be tought times when you'll want to give up. And then you'll tell yourself you can't because you'll look back at what you accomplished until now and look towards the future when you'll be a succesful PUA. That's the difference between a PUA master and regular people. That's also the difference between succesful people in life and other ones. They are consistent and never GIVE UP!.
So i beg you... DON'T GIVE UP!
Peace out
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gav

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i like this

*wipes the dust off it*

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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