"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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avrilishot

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Yesterday I was at las Vegas and I was on one of the escalators trying to

just attract any chick I could. What I would do is just try to smile at girls I

liked. Well to tell you the truth most girls act like they are stairing straight

forward or acting like you dont exist. Either way it wasnt putting me down.

anyways I noticed this sexy HB9 looked at me and gave me an awesome

smile. she had 2 kids she looked very good. haha. I did not see her husband or

any guy. so im wondering do you think she liked me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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American boys have been conditioned to jump anything that moves. Best of luck, dude!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Espi said:
Never question whether a girl "likes you."

Never question if a girl is sending you IOI's.

If you feel she likes you or is giving you IOI's, open her. Part of embracing the Alpha psychology is developing confidence in your own thoughts and actions rather than relying on others' opinions.
In other words, approach and find out your d@mn self. :box:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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