"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some men are so good at dating women but they struggle with LTR

tesla8520

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Hey guys!

I’ve had the chance to meet quite a few great people in this community who have been extremely successful at dating and attracting women in general. One thing I’ve come to realize is that being successful at dating, and with women in general, doesn’t necessarily qualify a man to be successful in LTR.

It’s a bit like being a Formula 1 driver: being exceptionally good at racing on a track doesn’t automatically make you a great driver in everyday traffic.

So, here’s what I’d like to ask those of you who feel you’ve had far more success with women than the average man could ever dream of, but who haven’t been equally successful when it comes to LTR: What do you think you might be doing “wrong” when it comes to commitment? Or, alternatively, what do you think you’re doing so right, or differently from most men, that makes your approach impossible to be with a woman in a LTR, but still get sex and company from her, but not the other perks that comes with a full committed LTR?

Genuinely curious to hear your perspectives and experiences.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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