"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Some kind of FR: Meeting new people

Prodoge

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Last afternoon I went to the pub with 2 mates for the football games.

After a while a groupe of about 5 guys of our age sat right behind us. They all had the same shirt with a unusual logo which lade me curious so I asked the guy clisest to me what the story behind it was. (Text book approach stuff... unfortunately not with a girl)

We got into conversation a bit, introducing ourselves to each other (I did most of the talking since this was in germany and the guys i was with are french). To cut a long story short we all ended up at the same table, getting drinks paid for us etc. Etc.

When it got close to eating time, they even invited us to the hotel where they were staying to go to a restaurant together after they got changed.

This is nothing extraordinary, the reason i posted it here is because it is what I should be doing with girls. Cant wait for the day when a bunch of girls invites me to their hotel...

I mean, i must have been charismatic to a certain extent to get invited by complete strangers... For me this is a confidence booster even though it was with a group of guys lol

They even thought I was a player even though that is far from beeing true for now, I am only at the beginning of becoming a DJ.
Not sure if thats a good thing getting called a player by other guys. Anyway I just smiled and laughed it off. Played it cool.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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