Some intresting Finds

[The Master Disaster]

Over the past week I've found some interesting things about attraction. From various sources.

Attraction to Women

-Men are attracted to women who have a good waiste to hip ratio because this a sign of good fertility.

-They also are attracted to breast size which obviously shows signs of mother hood.

-Men are also attracted to their opposite face. On a scale 0000-1200. Complete Male face is rated at 0000 and a complete Woman face is 1200. 0000 is attracted to 1200 or around that #.

Attraction to Men

-Women are attracted to men's height. More than even muscle. If you are about 5'11'' on average you will have a high attraction rate from women.

-Women judge your first impression more than conversation and compatabilty.

-Women are also attracted to opposite faces.

-Women are attracted to men who dress well (buisness suits, dress shirts). This represents your high status, and your ability to support them.

Intresting things

-Your somewhat nerdy hobbies can attract women 9 times out of 10. If you have 10 men who like sports, but one likes to play chess. They will be automatically driven to the chess player because he is unique. Your nerdy hobbies set you apart from the pack.

-In order for you to attract women, instead of bringing their sell-esteem low to match your level so come off as an amazing guy; You should bring their self-esteem up so it gives them good feelings so they want to be around you more and more.

thats a start.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

So youre saying if I have a sexy face, I want a girl with an ugly face?

No sir.

The rest makes sense, except the chess thing. They might think its unique, but if you don't do ANY sports, many girls will think you're a nerd. Try being in a wide variety of things.

 

[tamvonz1989]

I think he means that if u have a very musculine face, u'll be attraced to a girl with a very feminine face.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Ah. That makes more sense. I'd like a girl with a feminine face. Man faces don't sound hot.

 

[dannowillbookem]

-In order for you to attract women, instead of bringing their sell-esteem low to match your level so come off as an amazing guy; You should bring their self-esteem up so it gives them good feelings so they want to be around you more and more.

yes, make sure you're dependable to always be there and kiss her ass, so when the guys she's actually interested in turn her down, she'll whine to you.

god why wasnt this posted earlier!

 

[The Master Disaster]

yes, make sure you're dependable to always be there and kiss her ass, so when the guys she's actually interested in turn her down, she'll whine to you.

god why wasnt this posted earlier!

I was watching a documentary about this sort of thing on PBS and maybe it was the fact they were older, but the stuff that disses women just had a negative impact on women. Instead of them being attracted to them men, they ended up hating him.

 

[Nobody]

Explains why I don't usually like blondes with blue eyes.

 

[Ace of Flames]

yes, make sure you're dependable to always be there and kiss her ass, so when the guys she's actually interested in turn her down, she'll whine to you.

god why wasnt this posted earlier!

This is true with direct compliments. We all know not to give lots of those out, I hope.

But who said there was anything wrong with making a girl feel good? I, for one, don't enjoy making people feel like ****, and girls moreso. I'd like it to be where people around me are happier than they'd be somewhere else, which usually IS how things go for me. People enjoy my company; They actively seek me out. That's an awesome feeling.

But putting people down, especially girls, just to feel better about yourself... that just sounds like a schoolyard bully. Not DJ. If you have to do that to be an "amazing guy", you aren't very amazing at all, and you have no confidence in yourself.

Isn't there a strategy on this site all about this? I'm sure I remember reading it. Like how you should avoid visiting her at work where she's stressed out, or hanging around bothering her when she's angry about something else. It ties those negative emotions to YOU, and then when she sees or thinks about you, those memories and emotions linger around. No bueno. Instead, make sure most of your time together is happy and fun. Then, she'll associate you with those emotions. You = happiness. I'll take that deal.


In other news: Lol at PBS.

 

[Hawke]

I've got to agree on the You = Happiness part. While perhaps a little knock down occasionally may benefit to some degree, making someone feel great is always going to be the better option. I used to do that naturally with all the women who were attracted to me. I made them feel great whenever they were around, but i didn't shy away from making them feel bad every now and then. Mainly if they did something that was stupid really... I mean think about it, in todays world everyone is trying to escape from the pain and negative sides of life to have fun. Doesn't it seem like a good idea to actually be a source of that fun and good feelings. You just don't over do it.

The associations part, of negative feelings being attached to you, that can happen. But if the good feelings they associate with you outweigh the negative then it makes little difference.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Just make herfeel better. I like using it a switch on and off. When it is off, she comes to me begging to feel better.