Some input needed

[theguy351]

Im taking this over from my other post because "showing her i liek her" isnt my problem anymore....
when reading my stuff keep in mind that im 17 and she is 16.....apparently normal dj stuff doesnt apply, it seems

WE hung out 3 times....all the times in a group (with my brother and his g.f). She is away now, till this saturday...so i cant see her til she gets back. Then like 2 dys after that my brothers g.f goes away for a week. But then she tole my bros gf shes not ready to hang out just me and her yet cause we;ve only known eachother for a lil while. I dont get that, plus i am better with girls when its just us than in a group.

Then there is the thing about how she has never had a boyfriend and the idea of a good guy likeing her is new to her. She has only had drunken hookups wit dirtbags, then she gets attached to them and then she gets crushed becasue thats all it was, a drunken hookup.

Problem is i really like her and want to hang out with her just me and her. When we hang out in groups we dont get to talk alot because of other people being there. I need to get her to change her mind and go out wit just me.

Then there is the thing about how she is scared that she hasnt found out my downfall yet....my bros girlfriend imed this to me: "You know in the movie fever pitch, ok you know how the girls talk about the guys that are perfect, but somethings wrong and they always have to have a downfall. she doesnt know what yours is yet, and that scares her."


Any advice, comments or suggestions would be great....i just need some input because i need other peoples opinion.

 

[Play the Game]

As Last Man Standing would say, "You're trying to start a relationship with a hor!"
"If you want to be her pimp, get her drunk and do whatever you want."

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
You're making this a lot more complicated than it needs to be. Just get her drunk and fvck her already, don't turn into Capt Save a Ho.

 

[theguy351]

im not trying to complicated its just shes away so i cant do anything with her for a week

 

[Play the Game]

Alright, well you know what you gotta do. Get in a party with her and her friends.
Make sure they LIKE you, i would even go as far as flirting with them.

Play a little hard to get, and you'll see she'll come by when she's drunk and she wants some. At least that's how a dirt bag like me would do it.

 

[theguy351]

Lol..yea but we are probally gonna do other stuff before we hit up a party...i really wanna go on a one on one date with her and hook up, sober...first anyway

 

[theguy351]

im thinkin that since she likes me, if i actually ask her out on a regular one on one date, that she will say yes or at least give thought to it.....i mean she told her friend shes not ready to hang one on one, but that was jus to her.....if i talk to her on the phone a lil bit and stuff and then maybe visit her at work or sumtin im pretty sure she will go out....the main reason is im pretty sure she has never bbeen on a real date seeing as she has never had aboyfriend....shes not comfortable with the fact a good guy likes her and wants to go out wit her, yet....she will be. soon. ill keep u guys posted if u like

 

[theguy351]

eh guys

 

[theguy351]

m now supposedly i cant see her til the 19th.......here is an aim convo wit my bros gf

me: ok i wanna kno
ME: y was it that courtney told u she wouldnt hang out jus me nd her

her: because idk awkwardness i guess
her: she didnt excatly say
her: she was just like well i dont want to hang out with him aloneyet
me: thats what makes me think shes deff not into me
her: its sacry for a girl to hang out with a guy alone
her: espically a older guyy
me: yea but thats how u get to no ppl better
me: plus im squeeky clean eh?
her: if i was her i probably wouldnt hang out with you alone yet.
her: lol
me: u guys r weird
her: thank you.
me: ppl who meet eachother once go out alone all the time
her: sluts.
her: lol
me: normal ppl lol
me: i can see reasoning tho
me: i guess cause we jus met
her: that would be the reason
me: but its easier to open up and talk more when ur alone, then that transcends to when ur in a group
her: well like i said next time we'll do something where you and courtney are alone
me: isnt next time like 2 weeks cause ur goin away too
her:e when ever drew comes back from orientation
me: july 19th?
me: almost 2 weeks
her: sorrry.
her: lol
me: lol
me: so thats the next time i see her
her: yeah.
her: unless you go visit her at carvel.
her: lol
me: ****
me: any chance if i talk to her more shed go out jus me and her
her:haha idk, just be yourself
me: well i want her to go out jus me and her if she says she doesnt wanna that means shes not interested
her:ill talk to her about it
me: lol no, dont
her: ok, jus dont get urself worked up about it haha, if it happens it happens if it doesnt it doesnt
me:no ****

 

[theguy351]

id like to see wat u guys have to say bout that aim convo

 

[theguy351]

i just called her and told her i dont want to ever see her again......f-ing hor...ii dont have time for that pvssy ****