"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some ideas for improvement...

jdawgmcb

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I have tried most of these and im sure that most of you have at one point or the other.

Feel free to shoot down these ideas, as i'd like to hear what you guys say.

1 - Delete your myspace/facebook or make it really vague and boring. Also - When you're trying to find something to do for a night or want to talk to a girl - DONT do it on myspace/facebook. Post pictures of your outings and vacations, but don't use it as a social tool.

2 - ONLY text a girl WHEN SHE TEXTS YOU FIRST. Otherwise, call her. It is easy to ignore a text, not to mention you can't hear flow of voice, etc.

3 - CUT DOWN Masturbation (I said cut down - not cut out) and you will probably feel an increased urge to talk to girls and open sets (Dont cut it out completely or you will go crazy) Also - When you masturbate, focus on completing all the steps to a successful pickup.

4 - THIS ONE I CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH. STOP TAKING ALL EMOTIONAL/PSYCHIATRIC MEDICINES. Throw away the prozac, the valium, the xanax, lexapro, paxil, etc. These will only make you OKAY with the way your life currently is. I fell a victim to psychiatric meds and once I was off of them (UNDER DIRECT SUPERVISION OF A DOCTOR) I felt a lot more lively. (For the record i was taking prozac and valium at the same time)

5 - Take down all your girly posters if you know you're going to have girls over. Usually, a man who doesn't get laid has porn posters throughout his room. Instead, conveniently place a single girl shoe or belt somewhere in the corner... this raises social value.

6 - Remember that it is JUST a VIDEO GAME. If you don't get the girl you want, hit the reset button. (Losing at level one and having to restart is a LOT better than losing at level 8)

7 - Don't conform to everyone. Just because everyone's wearing nike shoes and an american eagle button up doesn't mean you have to, be unique. Get a nice hair style and go from there.

8 - If you're feeling like you need meds/drugs, TALK TO A COUNSELOR (preferably male) about your problems. Even if you are under 18, most states have privacy laws preventing them from ever contacting anybody. Also, counselors wont try to push drugs on you.

9 - Go OUT MORE!!! The more you go out, the more you will learn.

10 - Always brush your teeth, nobody likes a garlic mouth.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonutMan

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jdawgmcb said:
I have tried most of these and im sure that most of you have at one point or the other.

3 - CUT DOWN Masturbation (I said cut down - not cut out) and you will probably feel an increased urge to talk to girls and open sets (Dont cut it out completely or you will go crazy) Also - When you masturbate, focus on completing all the steps to a successful pickup.
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Is it bad if you do this, and start losing the urge altogether. I decided to cut back, and now I'm like fcuk it. I don't have the time or energy anymore. I haven't stopped talking to the ladies though, I have actually felt more motivation to talk to girls since this.
 

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jdawgmcb said:
9 - Go OUT MORE!!! The more you go out, the more you will learn.
I agree with all points, though I have an issue with this one. On paper it's real easy to say, "Go out and enjoy yourself", but that narrows the focus to those who are extroverted and social, it doesn't help those who don't like going out, or have nowhere to go (in my case, both).

My town has one small, really crappy mall, a few WalMarts and that's about it. Even if I did leave the house, I'd be driving around for hours aimlessly. The only places I go are work, school, gym and home, because that's all that exist here. :cry:
 

Aragon034

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jdawgmcb said:
I have tried most of these and im sure that most of you have at one point or the other.

Feel free to shoot down these ideas, as i'd like to hear what you guys say.

1 - Delete your myspace/facebook or make it really vague and boring. Also - When you're trying to find something to do for a night or want to talk to a girl - DONT do it on myspace/facebook. Post pictures of your outings and vacations, but don't use it as a social tool.

2 - ONLY text a girl WHEN SHE TEXTS YOU FIRST. Otherwise, call her. It is easy to ignore a text, not to mention you can't hear flow of voice, etc.

3 - CUT DOWN Masturbation (I said cut down - not cut out) and you will probably feel an increased urge to talk to girls and open sets (Dont cut it out completely or you will go crazy) Also - When you masturbate, focus on completing all the steps to a successful pickup.

4 - THIS ONE I CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH. STOP TAKING ALL EMOTIONAL/PSYCHIATRIC MEDICINES. Throw away the prozac, the valium, the xanax, lexapro, paxil, etc. These will only make you OKAY with the way your life currently is. I fell a victim to psychiatric meds and once I was off of them (UNDER DIRECT SUPERVISION OF A DOCTOR) I felt a lot more lively. (For the record i was taking prozac and valium at the same time)

5 - Take down all your girly posters if you know you're going to have girls over. Usually, a man who doesn't get laid has porn posters throughout his room. Instead, conveniently place a single girl shoe or belt somewhere in the corner... this raises social value.

6 - Remember that it is JUST a VIDEO GAME. If you don't get the girl you want, hit the reset button. (Losing at level one and having to restart is a LOT better than losing at level 8)

7 - Don't conform to everyone. Just because everyone's wearing nike shoes and an american eagle button up doesn't mean you have to, be unique. Get a nice hair style and go from there.

8 - If you're feeling like you need meds/drugs, TALK TO A COUNSELOR (preferably male) about your problems. Even if you are under 18, most states have privacy laws preventing them from ever contacting anybody. Also, counselors wont try to push drugs on you.

9 - Go OUT MORE!!! The more you go out, the more you will learn.

10 - Always brush your teeth, nobody likes a garlic mouth.
A little specific on the Meds... Though i mostly agree with you.

Most of this seems like detailing DHV, Self Control, and Confidence. It's nice to hear everynow and again though.

One thing, Who the **** would leave with only one shoe? A belt i can understand but a single shoe?

I've got to say, this sounds very sus.
 
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