In2theGame
Master Don Juan
This weekend got me thinking a bit.... How to deal with c0ckblocks, negativity, even if they are friends. Its been about a year and a half since my ugly 5 year breakup with the ex that devastated me and brought me so down, i thought at times i would never get back to being "me". However, alas... In2thegame has returned in full stride and it was evident this weekend. Ive always been attractive to the females but after the depression wore off, i hit the gym and worked myself back, so now the attention i get is pretty damn high so now im hanging with my friends a lot more going out to bars/clubs/house parties..etc
Now that im getting alot of attention again, Whenever we go out... i feel like my friends are "watching" me or sometimes try to neg me with a comment, like "In2thegame, you just lucked out with that girl, or "in2thegame she dont like you that much, she flirts with everyone" even though these girls are clearly showin interest. I dont care and i laugh it off but deep down, i feel like "You guys are my best friends, why are you negging me?". My best friend tried to downplay my body sometimes, Like at a bar, a group of girls come around, we talk to them and im always working the set with my eyes and see whos showin interest, etc. and when they stare at my chest, arms...etc... I get a comment like "put those muscles away",... i end up chatting up the girl i like... shes smiling and giggling and ill get another comment like "come on in2thegame, forget that one girl.. theres alot more around" or even the girls friend may come around and try to "breakup" our convo (yeah its a fat friend). Im like WTF is all this blocking.
So this weekend, starting friday... a group of us guys went to a party and i chatted up with the hottest girl there... and im gaming it good. she ends up sitting on my lap while her friends and my friends hang around talking, joking etc.. so all of sudden, my friends start trying to poke jokes at me.. which is cool.. all in fun but im thinking why all you guys pickin on me? game the other girls while im doin work here. when we left, i got my tongue kiss and i slapped her ass lightly lol... i got in the car and they all were like... "in2thegame, you cant get it like that, shes not gonna give it up to you, shes just playing you" so i kinda laugh about it and im like ah ha ha yeah ok guys. Fast forward to the next day, and the same girls were invited to a casual BBQ my friends were throwing. The girl comes and i engage quick... again got her on my lap. While she went to the bathroom... one of her girlfriends tells me "your a game to her, she not givin it up just to let you know" but earlier in the day.. that same girl was eye fvcking me. I didnt get mad.... i kept workin... and i ended up F*cking the girl i was talking to at my friends house spare room. She put on mobile FB after "omg amazing" and then her girlfriend sent her a text saying "whats amazing?" and she said "in2thegame *wink* felt so good" her girlfriend didnt respond and seemed kinda pissed lol. after we all cleared out. i find out that one of my friends was trying to game her behind my back on FB and couldnt succeed so ends up negging me after i F*cked her, telling me... the girl was a slut anyway.
Later that night we all went to a local small strip bar. we're cool with the people that run the place so.. we go often when we want a casual guys night out. I dont spend money at all except for some drinks and sometimes i play around when im drinking and putting $ in the girls g strings. However there is this one girl that is sizzlin hot,... when she comes around all the guys are like scared to touch her or talk to her... i mean its a strip joint so its for us guys to enjoy the show overall but anyway... She doesnt work there often when we go so we mess around with the other girls. This one girl with a fat ass but not so hot IMO likes to glance over at me and i start talkin to her... and here comes one of my friends and says come on man im tryin to talk to that etc. I think okay cool go do your thing... i feel his jealousy so im like.. no prob go get that. But here entered the sizzlin hot brunette that i got the eye for.... I remember her from the last time i went and she came up to me and remembered me, gave me a kiss and hug and we chat it up a bit before shes goes up on stage, my friend Immediately tries to swoop in to say hi to her, im like WTF?. i give her a love tap spank on the ass and she giggles but i see my friends lookin at me and im like what? the girls they were with were also kinda looking... like if they are wondering what im saying to her because shes giggly or whatever. Before she had to go up, i said i want dances from you, she said "what? you dont get dances, i always see you just hangin by the bar" i respond with "i do want dances but with the hottest girl that works here" she said "really?, what you mean" i said "i spend my money on what i want. Why spend on a Kia when i can get a Mercedes?" she laughed it up, so later on i saw her and grabbed her away from these 2 guys that were talkin to her. i took her to the back and she gave me some awesome dances lol Im making out with her and startin to get heavy with my hands... i feel shes wet but whispers i cant theres a cam on the top left. I said thats okay they can enjoy the show too... she laughed loud and guess what?... 2 of my friends yell by the curtain... "Come out already!" and the girl was like... whats his problem... i said i dont know.. his balls must be extra blue tonight. she laughed again and we stood chatting for a little while after we came out. I Get her number because i said i wanted to hangout sometime outside her work she agreed, i got a kiss and we left.
We all agree to go get food after... they ask me "you got her number?" i said yeah i did. right away they shoot it down. "yeah right.." then low and behold she texts me later that night,.. I said "Oh **** lol its her" and one of my friends says "Yeah right.. i wanted her man" im like what!? Anyway we get to the Diner... hangin out, get some food and 2 girls pass us by and sit 2 booths away from us. as we get up to go pay.. i turn around and start talking to them, i introduce one of my friends and im making jokes making them laugh... I sat down and started getting flirty. They loved it. I got one of the girls number and my friend got the others. He texts his girl but she says they are married sorry, were tipsy, we shouldnt have given our Number out. I was like damn, let me text the girl i talked to and see what she says.... i said "hey sexy, remember me? the guy who kept starring at you up and down but played it off?" she said "Of course i remember you cutie!" i respond with "so.. i would love to see you again" she says "that would be really nice but...Im with someone" i kind of avoid that and re engage with "aw okay..but it would still be fun to hang out!
" then she says "..I know.. i may be going out with my girls again, we could meet up then?" im like yeah thats fine she replies " Im a good girl hehe" i said " I Love good girls *wink*" she laughs and *winks* back. My friend says i thought they were married, i said yeah i know.. but it seems like its still playable. and looked at me like hmm how'd u pull that off.
Overall... I know im good looking and get attention but why do my friends seem to neg me or down play me when i do get the attention? Does anyone else have or have had a similar situation like this? I felt like saying. ur my friends why you guys tryin to block me. not only that but female friends of girls im trying to talk to try to block me. How do you guys handle this, whats ur approach?
Now that im getting alot of attention again, Whenever we go out... i feel like my friends are "watching" me or sometimes try to neg me with a comment, like "In2thegame, you just lucked out with that girl, or "in2thegame she dont like you that much, she flirts with everyone" even though these girls are clearly showin interest. I dont care and i laugh it off but deep down, i feel like "You guys are my best friends, why are you negging me?". My best friend tried to downplay my body sometimes, Like at a bar, a group of girls come around, we talk to them and im always working the set with my eyes and see whos showin interest, etc. and when they stare at my chest, arms...etc... I get a comment like "put those muscles away",... i end up chatting up the girl i like... shes smiling and giggling and ill get another comment like "come on in2thegame, forget that one girl.. theres alot more around" or even the girls friend may come around and try to "breakup" our convo (yeah its a fat friend). Im like WTF is all this blocking.
So this weekend, starting friday... a group of us guys went to a party and i chatted up with the hottest girl there... and im gaming it good. she ends up sitting on my lap while her friends and my friends hang around talking, joking etc.. so all of sudden, my friends start trying to poke jokes at me.. which is cool.. all in fun but im thinking why all you guys pickin on me? game the other girls while im doin work here. when we left, i got my tongue kiss and i slapped her ass lightly lol... i got in the car and they all were like... "in2thegame, you cant get it like that, shes not gonna give it up to you, shes just playing you" so i kinda laugh about it and im like ah ha ha yeah ok guys. Fast forward to the next day, and the same girls were invited to a casual BBQ my friends were throwing. The girl comes and i engage quick... again got her on my lap. While she went to the bathroom... one of her girlfriends tells me "your a game to her, she not givin it up just to let you know" but earlier in the day.. that same girl was eye fvcking me. I didnt get mad.... i kept workin... and i ended up F*cking the girl i was talking to at my friends house spare room. She put on mobile FB after "omg amazing" and then her girlfriend sent her a text saying "whats amazing?" and she said "in2thegame *wink* felt so good" her girlfriend didnt respond and seemed kinda pissed lol. after we all cleared out. i find out that one of my friends was trying to game her behind my back on FB and couldnt succeed so ends up negging me after i F*cked her, telling me... the girl was a slut anyway.
Later that night we all went to a local small strip bar. we're cool with the people that run the place so.. we go often when we want a casual guys night out. I dont spend money at all except for some drinks and sometimes i play around when im drinking and putting $ in the girls g strings. However there is this one girl that is sizzlin hot,... when she comes around all the guys are like scared to touch her or talk to her... i mean its a strip joint so its for us guys to enjoy the show overall but anyway... She doesnt work there often when we go so we mess around with the other girls. This one girl with a fat ass but not so hot IMO likes to glance over at me and i start talkin to her... and here comes one of my friends and says come on man im tryin to talk to that etc. I think okay cool go do your thing... i feel his jealousy so im like.. no prob go get that. But here entered the sizzlin hot brunette that i got the eye for.... I remember her from the last time i went and she came up to me and remembered me, gave me a kiss and hug and we chat it up a bit before shes goes up on stage, my friend Immediately tries to swoop in to say hi to her, im like WTF?. i give her a love tap spank on the ass and she giggles but i see my friends lookin at me and im like what? the girls they were with were also kinda looking... like if they are wondering what im saying to her because shes giggly or whatever. Before she had to go up, i said i want dances from you, she said "what? you dont get dances, i always see you just hangin by the bar" i respond with "i do want dances but with the hottest girl that works here" she said "really?, what you mean" i said "i spend my money on what i want. Why spend on a Kia when i can get a Mercedes?" she laughed it up, so later on i saw her and grabbed her away from these 2 guys that were talkin to her. i took her to the back and she gave me some awesome dances lol Im making out with her and startin to get heavy with my hands... i feel shes wet but whispers i cant theres a cam on the top left. I said thats okay they can enjoy the show too... she laughed loud and guess what?... 2 of my friends yell by the curtain... "Come out already!" and the girl was like... whats his problem... i said i dont know.. his balls must be extra blue tonight. she laughed again and we stood chatting for a little while after we came out. I Get her number because i said i wanted to hangout sometime outside her work she agreed, i got a kiss and we left.
We all agree to go get food after... they ask me "you got her number?" i said yeah i did. right away they shoot it down. "yeah right.." then low and behold she texts me later that night,.. I said "Oh **** lol its her" and one of my friends says "Yeah right.. i wanted her man" im like what!? Anyway we get to the Diner... hangin out, get some food and 2 girls pass us by and sit 2 booths away from us. as we get up to go pay.. i turn around and start talking to them, i introduce one of my friends and im making jokes making them laugh... I sat down and started getting flirty. They loved it. I got one of the girls number and my friend got the others. He texts his girl but she says they are married sorry, were tipsy, we shouldnt have given our Number out. I was like damn, let me text the girl i talked to and see what she says.... i said "hey sexy, remember me? the guy who kept starring at you up and down but played it off?" she said "Of course i remember you cutie!" i respond with "so.. i would love to see you again" she says "that would be really nice but...Im with someone" i kind of avoid that and re engage with "aw okay..but it would still be fun to hang out!
" then she says "..I know.. i may be going out with my girls again, we could meet up then?" im like yeah thats fine she replies " Im a good girl hehe" i said " I Love good girls *wink*" she laughs and *winks* back. My friend says i thought they were married, i said yeah i know.. but it seems like its still playable. and looked at me like hmm how'd u pull that off.Overall... I know im good looking and get attention but why do my friends seem to neg me or down play me when i do get the attention? Does anyone else have or have had a similar situation like this? I felt like saying. ur my friends why you guys tryin to block me. not only that but female friends of girls im trying to talk to try to block me. How do you guys handle this, whats ur approach?
