"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some guys really need to get that stick out of their ass

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iqqi said:
OK, you really need to stop doing this. In most of your threads when you are called out for your failure with women, you hide behind this 22 year old.
Called out on my failure with women huh?

Oh yea, I forgot....that's why I'm here. I'm a 36 yr old virgin. Thanks for reminding me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Truman181 said:
Yet isn't it ironic that STR8 has decided to tell certain guys how to behave.
If they want to reap the benefits of a (likely) short term proposition, yea, they should behave differently.

Any man who is accepting of such a woman should either go with the flow or abandon ship.
 

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Warrior74 said:
No bisexual chics for me. every guy I know who has went down that road didn't get the threesomes he was looking for, he got the butch dyke with a strap on fvcking his girl and making him look like a chump. Or the constant cheating with other girls, and eventually other girls and their boyfriends and then dumped. It's a slippery slope for a real and lasting relationship to be built on. In my opinion. But if your just banging her...sure go for it. You might get that threesome, I have. :)

Have to agree. A lot of the younger girls I date (19-25 yr) that are bi seem to have to get this lick fest period out of their systems. There are a lot of Bi curious women out and about in the last few years. So long as you keep it fun, and know it’s just about sex and good times then threesomes are a breeze.

As for relationships with bi chicks. There is one girl I know well who had a lesbian relationship when she was young and also flucked her way through a few girls. Well she is now with a guy and if you did not know her past she would be placed in the high standard category.
She cooks, cleans for 4 people, is a 9 in looks, spends money on BF and is very dedicated to making him happy. She also will go right out of her way for family and friends. Has an extremely good attitude and outlook etc. This relationship is about 3 years old without a hiccup so far. The boyfriend is pushing for a threesome but she tells him it’s a no go as she only loves him lol. So I’m not sure if it’s a permanent change. She seems to have adopted some strong values along the way.

Really it’s up to personal tastes. I do agree with STR8UPs statement of not trying to force someone into hiding their true selves. Better to accept the situation and move on if you can't handle it then start creating drama.
 

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azanon said:
This is a valid and natural question to ask (the question is begged) and one that we wouldn't be able to answer definitively prior to genetic testing of the sex chromosomes.

Although I don't know 100% certain how this scenario you described comes out when tested, I'm pretty certain this is right; If one has male plumbing (regardless of also having female plumbing), then that's not going to happen unless said individual has a "y" chromosome (on the 23rd pair). The penis develops from the ****oris due to the "y" chromosome exhibiting its influence. In the absence of the y chromosome, the ****oris remains atrophied. Of course the presence of the y chromosome effects certain chemical levels in the body, most notably more testosterone than a female would have.

As defined by genetics, if one has a y chromosome, they are male.

Ever heard of klinefelter's disease? This is a situation where an individual has 2 x's and 1 y chromosome. These individuals usually have female plumbing but quite often have the strength of a male and other tell-tell signs (such as a strong jaw/high cheekbones). So often, a lot of these showed up in competitive sports and the Olympics. I know in the past, all athletes were genetically tested, and if a "female" came up with Klinefelter's, "she" was disqualified because well, to be quite blunt, .... males can't compete in female competition. Being males, these XXY's with female plumbing are always sterile.

Being a tennis fan, I'm highly suspicious that Amelie Mauresmo is a Klinefelters. I was suspicious of this long before she recently announced she's a Lesbian. I think she's actually a heterosexual male like all males naturally are.



The studies Ive see certainly show a strong genetic component for gender specification. They've done tons of "controlled" experiments on babies and toddlers where "gender" preferences were exhibited.

So I think the only way to counter what should come naturally is to have a warped environment. The only other explanation I'm currently open to on the matter (other than just "perverted" indulgence) is to simply categorize it as a mental disorder that should be in the DSM. I don't say that to be mean or hateful towards these people, rather I'm just being matter-of-fact about it.

We're humans and we're really, really intelligent. One can "do" anything they damn well please including, but not limited to, having sex with your same gender. Nevertheless, I say "You are what you do" only in a figurative sense.
I've also read studies where pregnant rats were given testosterone and the female (XX) new-born rats had a penis, but most interestingly, knew how to use it.
 

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Depends, if she's with a women or a man, she's still with someone else. If you dont have that kind of relationship then shes breaking the rules and f'ing around on you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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