some guys naturally get picked on?

[Amazing]

i have a short friend 5"5 who thinks people try to **** with him just because when we go out.

i explain that may be that's in his head, but may be the dudes cant get pu$$y so they try to pick on someone who is the smallest so they dont get hit back.


of course he is partially to blame when he runs around tries to drunk attack every chick he likes, still

what would you advice? i got lifting covered, and i said if something happens again to just explain to a dude that there is not going to be anything going down, since everyone is there just to have fun.


funny i kinda used to get picked on way back.. one day it just stopped, i dont know what changed, but now i dont have any problems even if i try to act like a ****... knock on wood.

 

[kingsam]

he obviously projects a weak image...and by the sounds of the way he acts- he is kinda asking for the wrong type of attention

 

[Captain]

No - no guys are naturally picked on, there is always a reason for it.

He may be picked on because he is short. He'd get picked on far less if he was confident, an alpha male.

 

[nismo-4]

Everybody gets picked on for something. Whether you're tall, short, old, young, rich, poor, skinny, fat, nationality, accent, or anything, somebody's gonna have a problem with you.

You gotta have some witty comebacks! And have some fun with it too, as it displays confidence and can make you seem more alpha. Running from your problems is not the answer. Confront it face to face. But even so, sometimes you gotta retreat to win. But being witty is a big plus if you're being picked on. I was a victim of that and I knew how to attack back. Win or lose, I gained respect and was attacked lesser and lesser.

Moral of the story: Don't be a pushover! Push back! The more alpha you are, and the more respect you have for yourself, you can reduce how much you get picked on. Alpha males aren't scared to fight.

 

[Amazing]

yeah thing is he can carry his own, and he is a cool guys, so i wonder if he is justhitting on people's gfs all the time..which he does



today some dude tried to come "save" this chick i was with because i started discussing threesomes with her and her friend

i ended up teaching him a lesson about threesomes and he was pretty impressed... quick wit+ confidence = unstoppable.

 

[SandHawk]

I used to be picked on majorly as a kid. And when I look back at it, I probablyl would have picked on my kid me too. I was just pathetic back in those days.

So no, unless you have a natural weak personality and similar behavior.

 

[Scion]

I used to be picked on majorly as a kid. And when I look back at it, I probablyl would have picked on my kid me too. I was just pathetic back in those days.

So no, unless you have a natural weak personality and similar behavior.

being picked on as a kid is different than being picked on as a adult. For one, kids are immature and this sort of behavior is to be expected (plus usually it's some insecure little **** that is trying to make himself look superior by insulting and hurting someone else). But this kind of **** is unacceptable as a adult. Guys like that basically never grew up and their actions become old after awhile.

 

[Night Owl]

Get a taller wingman or walk in next to him on your knees....

 

[Amazing]

LOL!!

we have another dude with us who is 6"8 so it looks funny as sh!t.



ill beef his ass up and get him into MMA