"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some guys have it all... yet have nothing... Why?

tmpgstx

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I'm not trying to sound arrogant or anything, but kind of sounds like me. I'll get oodles of attention and then once i come back with some of my own, they seem to run.

This only seems to happen with the chics that are flakes to begin with though. There is one more grounded one that likes me, and she isn't running.

I think us guys that are intelligent, and accomplish anything and everything we set our minds too don't like to waste any time. We just like to get it done (and we're used to getting results rather quickly). I think to these girls that are 'flakey', we come across as too serious for them. They're not used to serious so it scares them.

We're easy targets for Attenion hos, because they're flakey and get a huge ego boost, while we're trying to make more of it and they'll string us along.

No more of that BS for me though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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