"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some girls too stupid to use C + F?

coolguy676767

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I have no problem with being ****y and funny and it always works on girls that are at least mildy intelligent or even sometimes just average girls get the jokes and respond and it works beautifully. However every once in a while I meet a dumb girl or something and they just don't get anything. They don't laugh or respond and either have a blank look on their face or a look as if to say, "damn this guy is arrogant in a bad way". I have asked my wingmen that aren't as experienced as me but they agree that some of these girls are just stupid.

So my question is "How do you guys deal with stupid girls that are diffucult to use C + F on or are just too stupid to make conversation?"

I know that I should just next them to get to smarter girls, but what if I am just looking for a Hook-up, I mean sometimes I just want to **** a girl at a party or something and am not worried about anything after that so I don't care if they are stupid or not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Make fun of them while speaking to them about stupid sh*t that they understand.
 

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In a way yes...

I've noticed there are a few types of people...

Some are too stuck up to let C&F make them crack a smile.

Some aren't really able to follow the joke.

And then theres the girl who plays along...

All 3 are out there, no brainer which one you stick with I guess..
 

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Very good question, in my very limited experience, these chicks go for appearance (maybe an ugly guy, but with appearance of money). And are virtually un-seduceable. Since I have success because I just focus on women who find me attractive, I don't have lots of experience on this.
 

wheelin&dealin

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coolguy676767 said:
Some girls too stupid to use C + F?
Yep, it's true. Some girls are idiots and won't get your jokes or sarcasm. If they're too stupid to understand you... then drop em from the pitching line-up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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onyx

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seriously if im just looking to get laid, i'll let em know my intention within a matter of 10-15 minutes......more than 50% of the time more like 70-80% of the time ill get laid...

if they worth gettin in a ltr with then its different, ull gain rapour then number close....maybe..maybe kiss cloe dependin on how **** lies at the moment....otherwise....ill fone em up for a date or text em a few days later...

but if im wantin to get laid 10-15 mins max and 80% success rate when i go for it..


no bs
 
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