"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some girls don't get it...

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I hate it when I use a witty line, and the girl is completely oblivious. For example, today when this girl was walking past me hella fast like she was speed walking, said, "Whoa, slow down there, you're going to cause an accident!" And she goes, "Why would I cause an accident?"
DURR U ****ING DUMB *****.
-Finesse

P.S. This is just one of my *****y posts, so...respond with more *****iness.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DaKidS3

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Maybe she thought you were a complete dweeb. :crackup:

If she was interested, she would have laughed no matter what. :woo:
 

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
Maybe she thought you were a complete dweeb. :crackup:

If she was interested, she would have laughed no matter what. :woo:
Or maybe she didn't get the bloody joke:rolleyes:

What's that have to do with being interested?
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Or maybe she didn't get the bloody joke:rolleyes:

What's that have to do with being interested?
I was joking around.

But that C and F line isn't very good. You should have been like, "I bet I can beat you in a race."
 

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
If she was interested, she would have laughed no matter what. :woo:
He makes a good point.

However, she was in a rush and people who are rushing are rarely in the right frame of mind to get a joke of any kind.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
I was joking around.

But that C and F line isn't very good. You should have been like, "I bet I can beat you in a race."
Oh, I didn't realize he was trying to pick her up. But can u blame me?
 

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Originally posted by Sicarius
Do you realize that thinking about all this C/F **** and being funny and cute and entertaining just for a girl's attention is ridiculous; you're giving girls power just by doing that because you're going out of your way and putting all this mental energy into getting their attention. Do they put that kinda effort in? NO.
So I'm assuming you just sit back and wait for everyone woman to approach you?
 

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sometimes people have so much going on that they forget to laugh at the little things
 

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I know what you mean though in general. Some girls have low IQ's and dont realize things quickly. Nothing is worse than a stupid girl that doesnt get ur jokes. At least you didnt have to explain yourself to her. Sometimes they dont get the joke and want it explained 10 times. So things could have gotten worse.

Personally i would have started walking really fast right next to her, trying to go the same speed...when she looks over at me i would say something like im not letting you win this race.
 

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Originally posted by Sicarius
Do you realize that thinking about all this C/F **** and being funny and cute and entertaining just for a girl's attention is ridiculous; you're giving girls power just by doing that because you're going out of your way and putting all this mental energy into getting their attention. Do they put that kinda effort in? NO.


it's called make up and taking FOREVER to get ready:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Forms

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You could just start walking really fast next to her for a few seconds and say "Man, I love this powerwalking stuff. Gets the blood moving real good. Just makes you feel ALIVE, know what I'm saying?"
 
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