"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some girls are Don Juanitas (aka want nothing than sex), and that's 100% OK

IKO69

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I would not say that is your average woman (just want to **** **** ****), but I would say most men severely downplay or frankly just don't understand a woman's true (sexual) nature. Look at how they dress / their specific workouts in the gym (cardio and a million exercises targeting the ass and legs) - everything is meant to accentuate "their goods". You always hear stuff like (and sometimes surprisingly from men) "Oh men are just more visually oriented" which is lololol worthy. Yes, women don't just stop at looks, they want the whole package - but looks are the main driver as far as primal attraction goes. Just think back to your younger years when girls finally became women (they hit puberty) --- they were interested in the cute boys, who may or may not have been popular. Only as they got older and needs evolved did they begin to place more emphasis on other things for security, but what they wanted as teens/young adults is what really gets their juices flowing at any age. It's not something they can help - it's like saying a fine figure isn't going to turn on a man at 80 years old.

Truly, the only reason most men don't see it is because of women's discreet nature and the fact they purposely try to pull the wool over men's eyes. It's to their advantage to keep men ignorant of their true nature.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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manfrombelow

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I would not say that is your average woman (just want to **** **** ****), but I would say most men severely downplay or frankly just don't understand a woman's true (sexual) nature. Look at how they dress / their specific workouts in the gym (cardio and a million exercises targeting the ass and legs) - everything is meant to accentuate "their goods". You always hear stuff like (and sometimes surprisingly from men) "Oh men are just more visually oriented" which is lololol worthy. Yes, women don't just stop at looks, they want the whole package - but looks are the main driver as far as primal attraction goes. Just think back to your younger years when girls finally became women (they hit puberty) --- they were interested in the cute boys, who may or may not have been popular. Only as they got older and needs evolved did they begin to place more emphasis on other things for security, but what they wanted as teens/young adults is what really gets their juices flowing at any age. It's not something they can help - it's like saying a fine figure isn't going to turn on a man at 80 years old.

Truly, the only reason most men don't see it is because of women's discreet nature and the fact they purposely try to pull the wool over men's eyes. It's to their advantage to keep men ignorant of their true nature.
Only fools underestimate a female's sexual desire.
 

GoodMan32

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You're right, there's nothing wrong with it. Dating isn't for everyone.

I don't have the mental energy to date right now. While I don't just want sex, sex is largely what I'm looking for.

I will elaborate on what I mean when I say I don't just want sex. When a woman comes over, bangs me, then immediately leaves, I feel cheap. I at least want there to be some cuddling/small talk, even if not quite to relationship-level.
 
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