"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some girl wants to be friends?

KnockoutJM

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Yeah i know the title sounds like a desperate thing, but i sort of have a problem with this girl.

I met her at a party(i was working so couldnt talk much) Got her number, and she was out. She would constantly talk to me about random things, tell me about her room and stuff, but then when we were going to hang out she would be like i can't.
Then she would start talking to me again, and i would end up flaking out because it isn't worth the time especially after she told me she was

"afraid of rapists and did not want to hang out alone"

So then i decided fvck that. I saw her at another party, hooked up a little (she had a bf at this point), and then she started to lose interest, and not want to go out, and that was it.
Then like a month later she sends me a message asking when we are going to hang out.
I responded "when you are done with your boyfriend, we can go out"
To that she said "we cant be friends?"

So my question is what to say to 1) get her to completely break the relationship, or 2) get her to stop talking to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GaryUranga

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why exactly are you makign her breakup with her bf over you? thats somehtign she has to decide to do, you just be deattached from it and play your game, also start sparking more interest.
 

cheesewacked

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she has some interest in you, definatly, but dont fall under the friend zone when you hang out with her, and dont talk about her boyfriend to her, take her mind off her boyfriend to come to you
 
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