...looks at me every time I pass her. Why is this? I thought makeout sessions were supposed to be meaningless (especially ones that occurred quite some time ago). I have not talked to her since the night we madeout and only started passing by her recently. She works at a place I pass by every other day or so. I myself try to avoid eye contact because I don't want her to think I'm still into her from a makeout session over a year ago (seems kind of AFC if you ask me). So my main question is, why is she still looking at me when I was simply someone she madeout with over a year ago?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Some girl that I madeout with over a year ago...
- Thread starter lazikia
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Entropy4
Don Juan
Because she's still attracted to you.
MacAvoy
Banned
She probably is actually a good girl and doesn't sleep around as much as most women do. Which is why you probably never got past making out. She's probably still interested for multiple reasons. First being the reason I said earlier and the second is because you were a DJ and moved on, so you left her imagining about you for the past year.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Play it the DJ way if you wish to reopen it. Otherwise, continue doing what you're doing. Can't see either way being bad.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MacAvoy
Banned
Next time she walks by, point at her, then when she stops, motion for her to come inside. When she comes inside, get her number. (I'm assuming you don't have it). If you have it, then motion her to come inside and ask her out.
She'll love the forwardness and you taking control if she isn't a complete shy prude.
She'll love the forwardness and you taking control if she isn't a complete shy prude.