"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChrizZ

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#1
I´m was walking home and I saw HB4 in front of me sitting on a bench and she was wearing a hat. I was standing behind her and was taking her hat ;)

HB4:"What´s going on. What r u doing?"
Me: "Ohh, you´re awake. I thought you were dead cuz you weren´t moving at all"
HB4:"Don´t you think that´s kinda rude?"
Me:"Oh, you got me. Actually I was trying to put some change into your hat. I thought you were one of those street artists that pretend to be statues and when you give them change they start dancing for you"
HB4: *Cracking up*
Me:"So what else do you do besides pretending to be dead..."
HB4: "Nothing, I´m just chilling"
Me (I knew there was attraction at that time): "Alright, I gotta get going. Why don´t you give me your cell phone number before I leave cuz you seem like cool person?!

She did and I left...
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#2

HB6 is walking my way.

Me:"Hey, do you got the time?"
HB6: "yeah, it´s x/y time"
Me:"Thank you. Where r u going to?"
HB6:"I´m sorry I´m in a hurry"

HB6 walks away.
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#3

Me in a CD store.

Me: "Hey, can you help me out. I need female opinion. I wanna buy a cd for a female friend of mine. Which one would you recommend"
HB3: "I´m sorry, I don´t work here"
Me: "Oh, that´s okay. I don´t work here either. ;) "
HB3: "Haha, okay. I like $"!§/ music"
Me: "Thanks. Seems like you have a great taste of music. How bout you gimme your number in case I need some more advice on music?"
HB3:Sure,....

Number close...
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I really wish there were HOT chicks where I live, but that´s not the case :cry:

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pretty good if its all true :)

I like the first one the most, b/c you really had something going there. The third one seemed kind of "making her" give you the #.

Are you going to call them up? if so..what are your plans? (if you don't mind me asking)
 
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Good job. Those are some fast # closes.

I tend to try to work things a little more, get more attraction going before the # close, but I probably end up wasting time that way in some cases.

In any even good show. Keep at it, we need more successful FRs posted on this forum.
 
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Good job.. but HB4 or 3s?! There's gotta be better out there man. Atleast you're getting a feel for things.. try finding an 8 or something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Props on approaching, its sad but I'm betting there are hundreds of guys on this site that still haven't even approached a girl once.

But dude, a 3 and a 4??? If this is to shatter approach anxiety, then I understand. But if your actually thinking about calling one of those girls, you need a brain evaluation. Lastly, its probably not the best idea to tell a girl she looks dead! LOL Unless you want her to walk away or possibly slap you.




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I #closed them all pretty fast cuz I could feel that there was initial attraction because of my looks cuz they were all ugly.

I´m not gonna call any of them. The problem is where I´m from I hardly ever see HB8+
It´s always raining, grey and cold here, so there aren´t many chicks out there.

Lastly, its probably not the best idea to tell a girl she looks dead! LOL Unless you want her to walk away or possibly slap you.
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Believe it or not, but that stuff actually works. However it usually only works with hot women to destroy their ***** shield.
 
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