So after my previous post where I whined and cried about never having a gf I was determined to stop *****ing and instead do something about it. It's 2 months into my last semester of college, and so far I've approached 9 girls on campus (I know, a low number, my college isn't that big though but I'm trying to get the number of CA's up more) and 15 girls at clubs (in 1 night).
The first 2 CA's, I did the same as one of the posts in the dj bible where the guy from Colorado was just going up to girls and asking them if they were single or not. Both girls I asked said they weren't.
One girl I approached at the library ... we were seated a few tables away and across from eachother; she made eye contact a few times and smiled. The next time she made eye contact, I called her over, and she said "you come here." I went and sat at her table but immediately she was stand offish and had her ***** shield way up, i got nervous, and ****ed that up. Asked for the number anyways but she said she had a bf.
Another girl was seated next to me at the campus bar, so I chatted her up, commented on the fact that she looked like she'd fall asleep in her next class. That got a laugh, but in general she looked and was giving off the vibe of not being interested, so I stopped trying to talk to her and didn't try to number close.
After that I had a bit of a buzz so I walked around looking for girls ... found a very hot brunette outside the library buying a purse. Introduced myself, she looked pretty surprised, probably not used to guys coming up to her. She said she paid $100 for the purse and thought it was probably fake ... I joked around with her and said she needs to "buy them off ebay, that's where I get mine". She laughed but otherwise she just seemed not interested and then she excused herself to go to the bathroom at the library.
The other day I saw 2 girls sitting at a table eating, I had a few minutes to kill before class so I went up to them, said "u don't mind if i join you" and sat at their table. Right away one of them was *****y and the other was completely non talkative, so i bailed out after a few minutes.
One girl was at the supermarket. I went up and introduced myself, but she didn't even make eye contact and was so much of a ****head I just said "enjoy your day" and left.
That's all I can think of at the moment ... there's not much to say about the 15 girls at the club other than that they were all either very *****y from the get go, or were just tourists and not here for longer than a couple days.
I definitely know I'd be doing better if I had a lot more confidence (and the C&F would come from having confidence) but since mine is completely shot right now, I figure the best way to get it up is just keep on trying.
I'm in florida ... I think most of the girls here are in general not very friendly, have their shields way up at all times, and only go for buff rednecks, but I could be wrong and maybe my "game" really is that minor league (could be the case!).
Any feedback is appreciated, thanks.
The first 2 CA's, I did the same as one of the posts in the dj bible where the guy from Colorado was just going up to girls and asking them if they were single or not. Both girls I asked said they weren't.
One girl I approached at the library ... we were seated a few tables away and across from eachother; she made eye contact a few times and smiled. The next time she made eye contact, I called her over, and she said "you come here." I went and sat at her table but immediately she was stand offish and had her ***** shield way up, i got nervous, and ****ed that up. Asked for the number anyways but she said she had a bf.
Another girl was seated next to me at the campus bar, so I chatted her up, commented on the fact that she looked like she'd fall asleep in her next class. That got a laugh, but in general she looked and was giving off the vibe of not being interested, so I stopped trying to talk to her and didn't try to number close.
After that I had a bit of a buzz so I walked around looking for girls ... found a very hot brunette outside the library buying a purse. Introduced myself, she looked pretty surprised, probably not used to guys coming up to her. She said she paid $100 for the purse and thought it was probably fake ... I joked around with her and said she needs to "buy them off ebay, that's where I get mine". She laughed but otherwise she just seemed not interested and then she excused herself to go to the bathroom at the library.
The other day I saw 2 girls sitting at a table eating, I had a few minutes to kill before class so I went up to them, said "u don't mind if i join you" and sat at their table. Right away one of them was *****y and the other was completely non talkative, so i bailed out after a few minutes.
One girl was at the supermarket. I went up and introduced myself, but she didn't even make eye contact and was so much of a ****head I just said "enjoy your day" and left.
That's all I can think of at the moment ... there's not much to say about the 15 girls at the club other than that they were all either very *****y from the get go, or were just tourists and not here for longer than a couple days.
I definitely know I'd be doing better if I had a lot more confidence (and the C&F would come from having confidence) but since mine is completely shot right now, I figure the best way to get it up is just keep on trying.
I'm in florida ... I think most of the girls here are in general not very friendly, have their shields way up at all times, and only go for buff rednecks, but I could be wrong and maybe my "game" really is that minor league (could be the case!).
Any feedback is appreciated, thanks.
Are you saying women always approach you? That's never happened for me, I don't think it does for most guys
