Some constructive criticism needed

[Crissco]

Tonight met this chick Lauren through a friend of mine. We ended up going to a party, the bar and the pool hall. At the party I arm wrestled 2 kids twice my size, I came damn close to beating them. Overall I felt damn good about my self. At the bar I got her to buy me a shot, at the pool hall I made sure she kept up and let her win the first game. She beat my friend the second game. Last game I won. I told her if she gives me 2 ciggs ill pay for the pool. My only prob was I was being a bit of a ****, but I mixed it up a bit with a couple of thank yous, holding the door for her....What got me was at the end of the night, she told my friend to run into his house since she left her bag there..I saw that as a sign of interest. I was trying to get her back to my place or for her number. I didn't want to come on to hard since it was my first night meeting her, I said we def need a rematch of pool bc she was pretty damn good. and asked what she was doing tomorrow night then asked for her number. She said she was studying and didnt respond to the number..I forgot to look if she was wearing shoes or heels tonight...I said that's cool..Then I said ill see her around, she goes yea def..The like an idiot I said maybe, she was a bit pissed.i really didnt know what to say after. .When I dropped her off she said bye it was nice meeting u... I said it back, but I felt like she was rushing out, she dropped something on the ground. I didn't know how to pull the closing off, which is always a problem of mine. Any advice appreciated.

Thank you

Crissco

 

[SchoolBoy]

you should never ask a girl for another date, while you're on a date, it's that simple. It drops interest by showing you have nothing better to do the next day.

And next time remember the Nike slogan "just do it" and attempt a kiss close. If you kino'ed enough that night, you would of had a high chance of success.

Btw from what you posted... I highly doubt you kino'ed her at all...

 

[Crissco]

you should never ask a girl for another date, while you're on a date, it's that simple. It drops interest by showing you have nothing better to do the next day.

And next time remember the Nike slogan "just do it" and attempt a kiss close. If you kino'ed enough that night, you would of had a high chance of success.

Btw from what you posted... I highly doubt you kino'ed her at all...

Actaully here and there I did kino her. More at the pool hall then anything. I technically wasnt on a date bro, I was chillin wit my friend and a girl. When I dropped her off my first thought was tell her to give me a kiss on the cheek but it didnt workout that way. After I said maybe she seemed a bit pissed and just wanted to go home, I think I ****ed it up right there.

 

[SchoolBoy]

well I assume her interest level wasn't that high due to the fact that she ignored your question regarding her number.. but whenever it goes stale like that... It's always good to at least tap your cheek and say to her "kiss goodbye?" and let her kiss your cheek.. at least you get some type of physical close....

 

[Crissco]

well I assume her interest level wasn't that high due to the fact that she ignored your question regarding her number.. but whenever it goes stale like that... It's always good to at least tap your cheek and say to her "kiss goodbye?" and let her kiss your cheek.. at least you get some type of physical close....

Thank you for your advice, I agree 110%.. But honestly bro, that was the first thing on my mind was I driving her home, I just didnt feel it at the time because I felt like she was a bit pissed. Lesson learned

 

[jophil28]

I said we def need a rematch of pool bc she was pretty damn good. and asked what she was doing tomorrow night then asked for her number. She said she was studying and didnt respond to the number..I forgot to look if she was wearing shoes or heels tonight...I said that's cool..Then I said ill see her around, she goes yea def..The like an idiot I said maybe, she was a bit pissed.

This is where you crashed ( but you may not be burst in flames - yet )

OK, you had her attention with your suggestion about a rematch ,and you then asked for her number. She said that she was studying, so you caved because she did not write her number down. WHY fold so easily?
She did not respond to your request for her number because she did not know if you still wanted it after telling you that she was unavailable. That was her unspoken way of waiting to see if you still wanted to see her on another night. She wanted you to PUSH her for her number, but you backed off. ( BY now she is disappointed . Women often test a mans resilience too )
Then you made your second blunder - you said that you will "maybe" see her around after she indicated that she would like to see you again. THat was heard by her as a rejection, or a statement by you of VERY low interest.
No wonder she was pissed off. I bet that you would if a woman acted like that with you.

Look, the idea is to ask for her number, or an email, and only stop asking if she flatout refuses , gives you some BS about her "boyfriend", or she runs away from you screaming for a cop.
Quite often women will NOT respond to the first request for her # because they do not want to hand it out to every d1ck who casually asks after a few drinks. HOwever she will usually give it to you IF you ask twice within about a half hour. She would likely then read your persistence as genuine interest in her by you .

 

[AAAgent]

i think your confusing ****y/funny with a$$hole/funny. stop being the d!ck u said u were being and just act normal. there is a difference between ****iness and plain rudeness.

 

[Crissco]

This is where you crashed ( but you may not be burst in flames - yet )

OK, you had her attention with your suggestion about a rematch ,and you then asked for her number. She said that she was studying, so you caved because she did not write her number down. WHY fold so easily?
She did not respond to your request for her number because she did not know if you still wanted it after telling you that she was unavailable. That was her unspoken way of waiting to see if you still wanted to see her on another night. She wanted you to PUSH her for her number, but you backed off. ( BY now she is disappointed . Women often test a mans resilience too )
Then you made your second blunder - you said that you will "maybe" see her around after she indicated that she would like to see you again. THat was heard by her as a rejection, or a statement by you of VERY low interest.
No wonder she was pissed off. I bet that you would if a woman acted like that with you.

Look, the idea is to ask for her number, or an email, and only stop asking if she flat out refuses , gives you some BS about her "boyfriend", or she runs away from you screaming for a cop.
Quite often women will NOT respond to the first request for her # because they do not want to hand it out to every d1ck who casually asks after a few drinks. HOwever she will usually give it to you IF you ask twice within about a half hour. She would likely then read your persistence as genuine interest in her by you .

The thing is I don't want to force the number on her bro, to me it seems a bit desperate? Looking back to last night I think she wanted to build up a friendship first. Most of the time I have girls buying me drinks, Ive had numbers handed to me. It felt really good but in a way it was just too easy(even though I did fall for one of the girls pretty easly).

 

[Crissco]

i think your confusing ****y/funny with a$$hole/funny. stop being the d!ck u said u were being and just act normal. there is a difference between ****iness and plain rudeness.

Your 100% right bro, I was too much of a ****. I hate being pushed around by anyone, shes the type of girl whos said give me this give me that. **** that! Plus when other guys come into the picture I become a bit defensive.

 

[Crissco]

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