"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some chicks have "poor game"?

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Ok, we all know that us guys want to play the "GAME" right inorder to get laid. We have to do the basic following steps such as kino, rapport etc etc then some of the advanced skills like gunwitch method, peacocking and so on..

Well, as for women, I know they don't have "seduction schools" like we do. But don't you think sometimes the hard to get women aren't really playing hard to get. The reason why it seems that they are hard to get is because that they just dont have "GAME"?

For example: We would say something ****y and funny to women (ones who are into you) and they would have no IDEA whatsoever how to reply to it in a C+F woman style and so, the words that would come out of their mouth would sound b1tchy instead of something that we would have wanted to hear.

Get what i'm sayin? Whatcha guys think
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ya... she probly wasn't joking.

I'm going to wager that you're not all that strong in game... I'm sure you know all those different techniques, but I would put money down that you do them wrong in person.
 

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verysuave said:
For example: We would say something ****y and funny to women (ones who are into you) and they would have no IDEA whatsoever how to reply to it in a C+F woman style and so, the words that would come out of their mouth would sound b1tchy instead of something that we would have wanted to hear.

Get what i'm sayin? Whatcha guys think

In my mind considering causality is not productive. We know that women will sometimes put up various reactions from friendly to b1tchy. The initial reaction does not determine the outcome of the set.

Sometimes a set will start off great and then go stale. Sometime a set will start off with what the woman perceives as flirting and the man will take it as a personal attack and become upset. Othertimes a woman may not want to be seen by the man or her peers as "easy", so she gives the impression of "trying to blow him off" despte the secret wish to be seduced or at least see what the market has to offer.

The idea is to not be affected by initial reactions in a way that shuts your game down. More often than not the woman is just trying to flirt or otherwise have a conversation without being seen as the initiator or a willing party to being seduced.
 

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everywomanshero said:
In my mind considering causality is not productive. We know that women will sometimes put up various reactions from friendly to b1tchy. The initial reaction does not determine the outcome of the set.

Sometimes a set will start off great and then go stale. Sometime a set will start off with what the woman perceives as flirting and the man will take it as a personal attack and become upset. Othertimes a woman may not want to be seen by the man or her peers as "easy", so she gives the impression of "trying to blow him off" despte the secret wish to be seduced or at least see what the market has to offer.

The idea is to not be affected by initial reactions in a way that shuts your game down. More often than not the woman is just trying to flirt or otherwise have a conversation without being seen as the initiator or a willing party to being seduced.
Thanks brother. That reply was very helpful compared to the troll who replied before you. We need more people like you on the board.
 

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I think only really young or really ugly girls aren't experienced enough.

Most older (17+) and decent looking (HB4+) are about fifteen more times experienced than you at "the game".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just replied to a thread of yours about negative posters on this board that I wish I hadn't after I saw this.

SPIS is not a troll. Just because someone gives you honest advice that you don't agree with that doesn't make them a troll. If anything that is what this site is supposed to be about.

This isn't a game. Girls who blow you off do so because they don't want anything to do with you. They dont need websites to teach them how to play a game they get hit on all the time (at least the hot ones). They are not always playing hard to get. It isn't personal, most of the girls that you want to date are dating someone else already or dont want to date you. Attractive females dont have to wait around, or approach most of the time. They have followings of guys waiting in the wings.

Ok, we all know that us guys want to play the "GAME" right inorder to get laid. We have to do the basic following steps such as kino, rapport etc etc then some of the advanced skills like gunwitch method, peacocking and so on..
I actually have never played the game to get laid. You can play the game at my girlfriend at a bar while I sit back and laugh knowing that no amount of kino is getting her to go home with you. Is that too negative? Maybe, you thinking that interactions with other people is a game is too negative. Social interaction isn't color by numbers. Kino in section 1, gunwitch in section 3 isn't a foolproof method. Dont fall victim to the color-by-numbers bull**** that these petty tricks are.

What you have written about seems like you have an approach problem. The whole post is casting blame on women, but if the majority reacts the same way maybe you should consider casting blame on yourself.

I mentioned in the other thread you wrote that the DJ bible isn't linked properly. If you haven't read it yet go to the bottom of the forum and click on it. Drop your ego, your game, whatever and read. Put those experiences into practices and your golden.
 

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Hot babes don't need game, many dudes will fvck the b!tches, no matter how they behave.:yes:
 

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too many damn trolls. And yes, I'm including "So pimp its scary" in the set of trolls, as far as this thread goes.

belividere, meanwhile, isn't a troll but is simply obnoxious. That's ok, tho; maybe it gets him hot babes in real life.


I think there are probably some women who do try to flirt back and just totally f*ck it up on occasion. As others have already mentioned, tho, girls don't really need much game. They're the passive recipients of attention. They either act friendly back to you when you hit on them, or they don't. If they want to try some complex new flirting method on you which they haven't mastered yet, then that might be an example of poor game. But the fact is, they don't have to bother with as much of this gaming nonsense as we do.
 

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lol,i know what you mean.

Like some women think men want sluts or b!tches and say the dumbest **** infront of everybody for no ****ing reason,thinking this is a turn-on or something.

Like for instance alot of women learned from the "rules" to ignore guys once they have noticed them.

To me if a girl just flatout walks right infront of me,when just the night before we were on a date, and doesn't say anything she's just being a b!tch and i'll next her for that alone.

If a girl talks **** about me to her girlfreinds and laughs thinking that's cute as well that will probably be the last time she ever sees my Dominican ass.

Another thing i've noticed is that some chics think arguing/showing you up in a conversation is cute..That **** isn't cute at all to me.Not that I think women are inferior but that isn't attractive or funny to me..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So pimp its scary

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LMAO... that's a first, being called a troll. Read through my **** from 2-3 years ago... you've been here a year... 'Quand tu allais, moi, je retournais, fils.'

Accept facts man, I wasn't insulting you, or your game anyone for that matter, I just called it like I saw it. The fact of the matter is that sure, some girls are socially inept, but really, if you couldn't sense that playful sarcasm in her, that the possiblility exists that she wasn't joking, just insulting you to see if you would get the hint and go away.

It's nothing against you when running game goes bad.
 
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