"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some chicks got game too

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Anyways, before i went to bed last night I left this chick an IM, boy was a surprized to see what she busted back at me when i awoke.

Jvesti123: hey im goin to bed now, been busy. Anyways I figure you haven't seen me long enough and its killing you.;-) so i figured i'd let you know that I will be free on wedsnesday later in the day and want to have a crazyfun time. You down? of course you are. leave me one lemme know whats up g'night

Auto response: jsafjja oasj oacsaw

her: ok ok first of all u assume it killing me that i havnt seen u .. but usually the guilty is the one accusing so U R DYING TO SEE ME. and your lucky i have Wed. off but i aint chillin until u lemmie know what the hell u thought was so interestin last time. :-* night night

(when i left her house last time i said "it was an interesting night" in a real ambiguous way, she's been up my butt about it since to what i mean't and i won't tell her)

So im just gonna respond to this tellin her that I might tell her if she's lucky and there is no room for debate on it take it or leave it.

but it's great when u got a chick like that, that's somewhat of a challenge instead of a pushover that'll say "tee hee your right". When chicks are challenging it's attractive too i guess.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I guess you both really "got" it.
Is this the same form of English you
use when speaking?
 

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Originally posted by NatureGuy
I guess you both really "got" it.
Is this the same form of English you
use when speaking?
huh what do you mean by form of english?
 

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I live near you and I don't know anyone
who speaks that way. ;)
 

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no that is AIM english

I usually speak english properly and get pissed when people talk incorrectly
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I get more pissed by seeing people write like that. Don't care if some dude is gangstahw00 and go around screaming FO SHIZZLE MA NIZZLE ***** but if someone on IM goes talking like "i iz vaery gOd EnLGizZH aight yy0y0y u triippng!!!!" I'm gonna land a *****load of condescending stuff on your ass. Anyways you should answer back with something better now :p "That's for me to know and you to find out, the problem is do you got the skills for it ;) ?"
 

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haha brilliant kineti, she's gonna have to be thinkin for a while to comeback with something for that.

I said "That's for me to know and you to find out, the problem is do you got the skills for it?;-) Anyways i'll give ya a buzz when I'm ready to go out then we'll meet up, around 6 works for me. time to get back to my work i'll be around later bye"

honestly though, It's great that way.

A lot of girls I but on they yell at me for being "mean to them" or stop "picking on me".



Bottom line:

I think C + F works both ways. It's maybe even AS attractive when females do it to you as it is to them
 

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Originally posted by DankNuggs
Its not that "chicks have game"


its called FLIRTING....
well whatever it is, there are a good number of girls that can't stand there ground and aren't challenging at all.

I mean plenty of girls put up a front, but when you test them for instance like what I did, they crack and can't give it back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Jvesti
well whatever it is, there are a good number of girls that can't stand there ground and aren't challenging at all.

I mean plenty of girls put up a front, but when you test them for instance like what I did, they crack and can't give it back.

The more you realize this, the more power you have...Braintree huh, I grew up in milton.....
 
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